Hi hayley_kate and congratulations on your pregnancy Can't you just tell people you are on antibiotics or something? It amazes me how much pressure adults feel to 'have to ' drink at a party or function! It's amazing how empowering it is to just say no for just saying no's sake iykwim You don't have to have a 'reason' not to drink but make something up if you don't want to tell people you are pregnant.