It really is personal choice and i don't believe anyone should give you those horrible looks.

I personally have had a small (half glass) at family functions etc, a couple of weeks ago a friend was over and i treated myself to a WHOLE glass of wine and some chocolate.
I went for champers... OOPS watch the bubbles, red would prob be best if you were going to have a glass but it's your choice.

I know there are lots of risks involved but i think back to the fact we had a MASSIVE Aus Day weekend before i knew i was PG with DD, i wrote myself off completely, the first thing i said to my Dr was OMG what have i done.. he told me the likely hood of anything happening was minimal.. just don't make it a regular occurance!

I prob haven't helped but it really is personal choice, if it's only 1 glass or half a glass every now and then... ENJOY IT!