Thanks for the replies.
Heavenly - We have been doing gentle parenting with ds. Ds works himself up very quickly, so much that he vomits.
Bronners - I have an appointment with the hospital on the 16 June. We will ask them at the appointment. With DS I was in there two nights then signed myself out against doctors advice, I couldn't stand the place any longer. I don't if they wanted me to stay longer because it was my first baby.
Rivlas - We got no family nearby who can mind him, its just me and dh. I don't even know who I will get to mind him while I'm having the baby .
Erin_25 - Dh hasn't really had him at home by himself, they go out together heaps but I don't go out much without them. We will start trying to get dh to put him to sleep at night and see if that works.