I have who I would like to take care of them. I also have how I want our money to be divided amongst them (both have different fathers therefore very important it's clear). I really havent' put in alot more than that, just that they must stay together and finances. I guess you could put your preferences for things like schools etc, but I decided to leave it to the circumstances. (Praying never have to worry about all this I might add). xo