You dont have to do anything - its your body and your baby

[dust]

My comment about being treated like a piece was meat was specifically directed towards the general hospital and their treatment of patients where I LIVE - not every general hospital.

my apologies Arimeh!!!!!

arfm08- i was in bit of a shock & took it personally For whatever reason some in the medical profession just aren't size friendly (at the time my BMI would have been in overweight)

Megan wondering if today bub decided to arrive?

[MeganH]

Nope no baby yet. But we still have 9 hours til midnight LOL! Im trying Im trying ;-)

[Mel4d]

Megan, thanks so much for your post.
I am 6wks with my 2nd pregnancy.
My first is 7 1/2 & I was totally pushed around from start to finish when I was preg with her & even beyond to the point where I had a early childhood centre nurse show me how to put my 4month old to sleep... Like I had never done that before. The worst part was everything she did was in contradiction with what I knew my baby preferred & so instead of her going to sleep she ended up screaming.
I am still working on the whole empowering myself but I know the second I can leave the hospital with my baby after the birth I will be outta there.
Now can you just tell me how to get my partner to be more assertive & not allow everyone to walk all over him?

[Cass72]

Great thread. I had DS (14) in a public hospital in Brisbane - the birth was fine, the midwife was wonderful. It was the aftercare that really sucked. Looking back I should have been more assertive but I was young and didn't know any better.

This time round I'm going private. Lucky for me DH knows exactly what I want and he doesn't let anyone push me around. He also asks way more questions than I do to make sure we both get an accurate understanding of what the doc is saying. Sorry, I do tend to go on about him....

[SamiH]

I am still working on the whole empowering myself but I know the second I can leave the hospital with my baby after the birth I will be outta there.
Now can you just tell me how to get my partner to be more assertive & not allow everyone to walk all over him?

get a doula - big difference - I did for number 3 and she worked brilliantly with DH

[MeganH]

get a doula - big difference - I did for number 3 and she worked brilliantly with DH

:yeahthat: A doula or an independant midwife are invaluable.

[MeganH]

Hi Girls, just thought Id drop by quickly and update you all.

Im sure some of you maybe have read the birth announcement and know some details already.

Anyway, Emily Ann was born at 6:20am on 8/8/09
She weighed 8lb 7oz or 3.8kg, 52 cm long, 36.5 head circ.

Emily was born by c-section so unfortunately for me things didnt go according to plan a or plan b but went according to plan c. Please dont feel too bad for me not getting my HBA2C as I am accepting and when you read my birth story (which I will post maybe tomorrow) you will understand too why plan c was the best for me. I am recovering well and breastfeeding is going really well so far (although right now my boobs feels like big watermelons coz my milk has come in).

I am still in hospital as I write this, although I could go home tomorrow but I have decided to stay 4 days rather than 3 to give me a bit of extra Emily/mummy time. So I will go home on Wednesday.

So I didnt have my HBA2C but I did have a Home/water labour with empowered c-section.

[Visitor8]

well done mumma! Can't wait to read your birth story!