i had an easy first pregnacy, sick til 16 weeks but smooth sailing from there, traumatic birth= long recovery which made me scared to try again.
second pregnancy again sick til 16 weeks, SPD from 28 weeks awesome birth and recovery.
i found second time harder mainly because i couldnt sleep in as i had DD1 to tend too, found it hard playing with her on the floor etc..gettin gup was hard! i think age and having anpther one to run around after made it harder but not too bad!!