PA's still get me too. It's more that their PA is a happy event... naive might be the wrong word... but they have usually not had to experience the journey we went on. They are happily ignorant of my reality. For me, it's a reminder that I can't do what most women can - decide they want to have a baby, make a baby at home, and be confident from the first BFP that they are bringing a baby home. Hugs bloom.