thread: Can't stop worrying....

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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
    11,633

    Yes, it's totally normal I'm sorry to say that the pain of LTTTC does not go away once you're pregnant, nor even once you have a baby.
    It's very hard to stop the cycle of negativity and worry.
    Lenny started this great thread ages ago.
    Take care

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jul 2010
    Melbourne
    2,737

    Thanks MadB, I just had a read. It all sounds so familiar...LTTC sucks!

  3. #3

    Mar 2008
    Where dreams are now reality
    2,318

    Thanks MadB, I just had a read. It all sounds so familiar...LTTC sucks!

    Yup and you will never be the innocent pregnant woman you would have been if you'd fallen pregnant easily. LTTTC robs you of a lot but you know, it will mean you dont take anything for granted Achey, period like pain is very normal. I remember ringing my clinic saying 'Oh, Im 6 or 7 days over but AF is on her way'.....I was UTD

    Each scan brought relief that all was ok at that moment, like you the fear was always there. It doesnt go away but it does get less breath catchingly terrifying

  4. #4
    Platinum Subscriber

    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
    2,172

    The only way I got through was saying to myself- "I don't have my period therefore I must still be pregnant", I didn't have much morning sickness or pregnancy symptoms so you just have to go along with it and accept that you are going ot stress about everything , its SO hard xx

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jul 2010
    Melbourne
    2,737

    Thanks Saffy, joeve and lilydust.
    Monday is so far away I am trying to stay positive. I have a nice strong positive still so FX. Thank you ladies