Lenny luv you have to ask yourself the question, If I fell pregnant how would I feel.

For me the answer would be OMG this is the worst thing that could happen. So the answer to my question is no matter the likelyhood that it is impossible we still use contraception every time. For me the OCP is not an option so it is condoms all the way.

DH is going to get the snip, but has been a little busy to fit it in at the moment.

So think about your answer to the question and take the contraception issue from there.