In an ideal world we would have liked 2/3kids. As we took 10yrs to conceive our now 1yr old daughter we had said we would be happy with just her if our other snow bubs dont take.
However, we are now in the TWW game with two of our frosties and only one left on ice. I am thinking to myself that if this transfer is unsuccessful we only have one chance left and I dont think I would be ok with that if it was unsuccessfull either so we might go back for another stim cycle yet.
What would I do if I then had "leftovers" (what a horrible term sazz!)? Hmmm, dont want them to go to science but how would I feel about possible siblings to Celeste wondering around without our knowlege. What if they survived and Celeste grew up to date them??? I think we have a "no frostie left behind" mentatality here too.
Ooh a good question, we have no frosties left so are looking at a full stim cycle and we want only one more so i worry that we will have others left in the freezer after baby number 3 and that would be a whole other dilemma.....
Our little boy turned one yesterday, and we have three snowbubs.
We want to give them the chance at life... to us they are potential brothers or sisters for C.
Realistically I think the chances of actually getting pregnant (after thaw losses etc) are not good with only three embryos...BUT what if we got pregnant witht he first one! Thats the dilemma then for me, b/c I am nearly 41 now and though would love 3 kids (always thought I would have three), dont think we could handle it!
Not sure whether we would try a stim cycle again if our frosties didnt make it...think probably yes. And then the dilemma potentially starts again!
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