AAAAW Sushee, I know how you feel... Dh after Indah was adamant there would be no more, I cried myself to sleep when AF arrived, I was truly heartbroken & scared that this was truly it... Then I told him I loved our girls with all my heart but I was desperate for atleast 1 more... He slowly understood & listened to me & when I said I am ready to start temping he bough condoms & I bawled like a baby.... Then he stopped going for the drawer when DTD & I knew that meant if it happened it would be OK, he said one day "We arent TTC are we?" I said I'd love it to happen...
Then it just happened in a cycle where I was sick, tired & had spent time in Hospital with Indah, there was no way we could have conceived (on paper) but we did & he is over the moon & when I mentioned a fourth, he smiled!!!

I hope you find peace in your decisions & h=get to really chew the fat with Dh regarding your inner feelings... It's important & should be a joint decision...

Sushhee could you ask DH about going for just the one last snowbubba????


OOOH How I wish I could bundle so many of you ladies my close friends up & hug you all so tightly...

Hopefully Indah & Charlie will give us Tonnes of grandkids!!!!

Love ya pet!