You are not a 'priggish snob' - no way!!!! It's nice of people to offer things but I've found most of the time they make you feel like you're obliged to take it. Every single thing we have for this bub is brand new except for a little white United Colours of Beneton t-shirt that my cousin gave to me as I had bought it for her when I was in Italy a few years ago & it hardly looks worn anyway. We don't know what we're having but people have actually been really put out with us as we've not told them what names we're thinking of when they ask. They look at us in amazement like we're weird or something for keeping it secret. Bugger them - enjoy the rest of your pregnancy and enjoy your baby how you want to - who cares about anyone else, you deserve to have every happiness at this time and if people only want to be annoying then Poo to them.

Big Big for you.