well there ya go! i was just going on what i'd observed with friends not on any science when i said the vb/cs thing. it could be completely irrelevant

my post partum bleeding stopped within a week, then i had a mammoth bleed after 3 weeks - i had a clot the size of DH's fist after about three days of bleeding. i still considered it post of the PP bleeding though. wasn't comfy! i then went on to get AF at 6.5 months, still exclusively BF dd until a couple of weeks before that and feeding through the day and night still.

i think it's different for everyone though

argh! can't get my thoughts out. E has a rash and teethign and yukky tummy and not sleeping (five hours trying to get her to sleep overnight, feeding at least half that time) - and so damn tired! definitely NOT what i'm used to!