BW - to you. I don't have any advice but hope that you come to a compromise soon. Whinge away, that's what we are here for.

By the way, I couldn't leave Adam overnight either, Nanna stayed at our house so he really had no idea that we were gone. Once he's asleep, he rarely wakes up. We got home at 1am, and he woke at 430am grrrrrrr so the reason I feel so awful today is too little sleep mixed with a headache!

Just ordered pizza and eagerly awaiting its arrival.