lise, that babyhood stage is so hard cos they are always teething, growing, learning etc and you just never know sometimes why the smeg they are crying all the time! but it does get heaps better.

DS is now obsessed with DH and loves his daddy so much that he is happy to spend entire days without me ... and i went out for dinner for the first time since Ash was born - a girls thing as well... Ash didn't even bat an eyelid! went to bed very happy. Mind you if daddy isn't there for bedtime... end. of. the. world.

but i know what you mean about the relationship. i think the blokes have a hard time no longer being number 1 in your mind and we have a hard time sharing the love cos caring for a LO is just so exhausting. it doesn't help if you aare both tired either and neither of your needs are being met!

what if you just started with a coffee out or morning or arvo tea with you and DH til Finn is better without you? that was he get used to you going away.. and coming back and you get some time but don't have to stress that he's not sleeping/crying.

Yep, this pregnancy has flown by! I know poor kelly isn't feeling that ATM. are you there kel?

hope your house hunting is going well murph

Hi boc, madb, lenny, saph, janie,

Juniper - how is it all going??? love to hear from you.

oxox