Hello Baby Dreamtime,
so sorry we almost lost you through what I think is a bit of a misunderstanding honey. In trying to understand where you may have felt upset I thought maybe it seemed rude to be asked if you had one or two embryos transferred. Firstly I don't think that anyone who is in this forum wishes anything but the very vest for every one of us that has made it here (or is yet to make it)and whether we have one sticky bub or two, we are supremely happy that we have a pregnancy. I think we ask about whether you had two transferred so we know about your individual case. Many of us (including me) had two transferred and I don't feel anything but complete happiness that out of two embies, I got a beautiful baby girl. It's wonderful and exciting hearing about everyone's blessings, be it one or two, so please don't mistake our questions as meaning to insult. I don't think I asked you, but may have asked azz or other girls the two or one emby transfer question because I'm such a dope I'm still learning about what it takes to have identical twins and that one embryo splits. I think we just ask in order to see if your one emby split and will possibly be identical or whether your two came from two. Whatever you do, I have yet to come across a negatively conceived comment since being on this forum and find it the best bunch of caring girls so please stick with us even if we somehow offend you. Email is not always the clearest form of communication, and I often feel that I have been too blunt or left someone important out but we try and I know that there are days when we can't concentrate on our own lives for worrying about one of our BB mates is going through. It is sad that you have felt hurt, but good on you for confronting it. I hope we only move forward and you feel welcome to talk any time.
P.S I will update your details with your two little blessings Sorry I think I made a cutting and pasting error and put you down as only one.
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