Hello Baby Dreamtime,
so sorry we almost lost you through what I think is a bit of a misunderstanding honey. In trying to understand where you may have felt upset I thought maybe it seemed rude to be asked if you had one or two embryos transferred. Firstly I don't think that anyone who is in this forum wishes anything but the very vest for every one of us that has made it here (or is yet to make it)and whether we have one sticky bub or two, we are supremely happy that we have a pregnancy. I think we ask about whether you had two transferred so we know about your individual case. Many of us (including me) had two transferred and I don't feel anything but complete happiness that out of two embies, I got a beautiful baby girl. It's wonderful and exciting hearing about everyone's blessings, be it one or two, so please don't mistake our questions as meaning to insult. I don't think I asked you, but may have asked azz or other girls the two or one emby transfer question because I'm such a dope I'm still learning about what it takes to have identical twins and that one embryo splits. I think we just ask in order to see if your one emby split and will possibly be identical or whether your two came from two. Whatever you do, I have yet to come across a negatively conceived comment since being on this forum and find it the best bunch of caring girls so please stick with us even if we somehow offend you. Email is not always the clearest form of communication, and I often feel that I have been too blunt or left someone important out but we try and I know that there are days when we can't concentrate on our own lives for worrying about one of our BB mates is going through. It is sad that you have felt hurt, but good on you for confronting it. I hope we only move forward and you feel welcome to talk any time.
P.S I will update your details with your two little blessings Sorry I think I made a cutting and pasting error and put you down as only one.
31becc, Congratulations and welcome! Best wishes for the rest of your pregnancy.
BDT, what an awesome catch up with everyone! Your SIL did so well to get to 35 wks with triplets. It's so good to hear stories of little ones that come early but are still healthy. Your twins will have lots of cousins to play with at family get-togethers.. how exciting! My fingers are crossed you end up with a pink and blue bundle. Hope you have been feeling well.
Azzrenae, haven't joined MBA yet but I did send off an expression of interest form to our local MBA and they sent me back some of their newsletters and a membership application. I do plan on joining. Nest Wednesday will be here before you know it.. It's nice having something to keep counting down towards.
Kelly, love the name Rose.. GL narrowing down your first name list. Enjoy your 4D scan tomorrow. I'm sure you'll get some amazing pics.
Saph, you sound like wonder woman... a young son, back at work, starting a new course and coping with MS!! Hope the MS goes soon for you.
Hi to all the other ladies!
AFM, ob appt today. A bit of protein in urine but BP is ok. Apparently protein can be a sign of pre-eclampsia. Need to be re-checked on Wednesday and have some blood tests done too. Here's hoping everything is normal on Wednesday... Ob is happy with everything else. Growth scan this Friday. Will update when I know more.
BDT - I hope you are feeling better and more supported now that you have let us all know of you feelings. I am so pleased for your twin bundles. I can only keep my fingers crossed for both pink and blue. Will you find out? I can understand that you may have taken things that I have said personally for me I did not want twins as I have only ever wanted two kids. But I guess you have no control over these things and you are so blessed.
AFm dry reching this morning and now nothing. But I am completely mortified I think I need to go and buy maternity pants and I am only 9 weeks. But come the afternoon my jeans are to tight and making me very uncomfotable. This is not ment to happen yet.
Hi fellow mummies in waiting I'd also like to introduce myself.
I am very pleased to be able to join this thread. Our journey is similar to others. I have endo, one ovary and endo in my remaining ovary. After 4 IVF cycles and 1 FET last year we finally had DS. A few months ago we thought that we would give it one more attempt and use the 2 frozenblasties in storage. We had no expectations as the charts showed we had a 10% chance due to my age. Hence we were relaxed about it as were already blessed. So when the nurse rang with a BFP I was in utter shock. DH was stunned. We are still in early stages and I will relax once we've seen that first scan.
I got my bfp today. HCG levels at 450, ET was 2 weeks ago today. Because the level is quite high, apparently twins are on the cards? Anyone know about that, cos I dont have a clue lol.
So, it is my 3rd cycle (fresh) and I had 2 day 3 embybabies transfered.
I am seriously IN SHOCK as it feels as if AF is about to pounce at any moment. No spotting though. (phew and fingers/toes/everything is crossed)
Well, thats me. Its so lovely to see all the gals I have suffered through the insanity of the 2ww with in the past
Sorry I think I made a cutting and pasting error and put you down as only one.
Enjoy your 4D scan tomorrow. I'm sure you'll get some amazing pics.
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