thanks kellyd - i bought a baby sleep book on impulse from big dub and after i paid $40 and got home did i realise it only deals with babies older than 6 months. and lol... i think bella is next... hmmm actually where is bella?

LM - that is lovely. i like that you are taking special note of reactions. i can't remember what DH's parents said/did but i remember one of my dad's first comments was "i'll have to buy another fishing rod for him''! and my mum fell off her treadmill lol .. probably should have waited til she stopped. My brother said "good one grub" lol - for the record, yes my family actually call me grub... and even worse i answer to it.