I was being unclear, I think. DH rubbed my tum and told his friend that we are expecting a baby. I was tickled because before this, my hubby wouldn't talk about baby names, wouldn't tell anyone we're pg, wouldn't look at baby stuff, wouldn't let me buy a pg book until after my 12 week scan. He's so paranoid that he puts me to shame! So for him to calmly tell some virtual stranger that we're having a baby shocked the hell outta me!
Jo, I'm sorry about you feeling sad all the time. I remember when I was pg to my son Zaki, I had no family here, my ILs were the devil incarnate, and DH worked really long hours. I spent a lot of time on the internet too, and I remember my Dr telling me that he believed that cyber relatonships could make you feel even more isolated, not less isolated. I don't know if this is true, especially when the internet may be your only contact with the outseide world, but I think a lot of medical professionals still see the internet as an unhealthy environment.
Take care of yourself and do what you feel is right for you.
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