Mel - I am not worried about F & F knowing so much as 'other' people asking all the questions - interogation or asking - you know the joke (not really to me) "shooting blanks".Even well meaning people can be nosy.

DH's BIL's - brother 'P' had a sperm problem (a fraternal twin by the way) P and his wife have one son via donor sperm -now 14. We knew for ages and they probably know all about us. I think they only went the 'one' child because some family (?) was funny about it.Mind you they didn't ask any Q's.

P was so funny at Dear Neice's wedding and he said we were going to have 2 boys (like him & his twin brother - they were wicked and so funny) There mum was shaking her head - as if to say " I hope not -you poor thing" I FORGOT about them.

There were another set of twin boys at wedding (Groom's cousins = page boys) and they were wild - as boys can be - but extra wild with each other -almost knocked the wedding cake over. So they all kept saying we were bound to have boys !

SIL will probably be emailing P & his DW in China now (he is there working) to tell them. SIL told everyone after we told them @7 wks.DH did not mention we wanted to keep it quiet till after 12wks- oh well ! I hope they send us a nice pressie

MIL too will have told 101 people by this morning LOL - Dh rang her last after his sisters. Oh ' the excitement - hope DH tells his Dad before someone else does.