Well ladies we had our 28 week scan today - and I wish we hadn't!! It was done during our regular OB visit, and DH asked her if she could confirm the gender as we've bought a number of girly, pink cloths and dresses (as you know!!). She had a look and said she wasn't sure - she saw something she thought was the labia, but then we could clearly see something that looked like a penis!! She said if she had to make a guess she'd say boy but she really wasn't confident at all. She admitted she wasn't very good at this, and said she'd check next time but i'm now feeling so confused and torn and uncertain as to what to think. Please don't get me wrong - i'm more than happy for the baby to be a boy, but after being told it's a girl and thinking of it as a girl for all these weeks and buying it girl clothes etc., well if I kind of feel like if it is a boy then we've 'lost' our little girl.

I'm off to Google the accuracy of these things - I know that early on the clitoris can look like a penis but is that normal at this stage? She did say if it was a boy then it's boy bits are very small... I'M SO CONFUSED!!!!!!!!!

Hope you are all well - lilmiss, sending some labour vibes your way xx