Just thought Id pop in a quick one while my son has decided to go lie down.
WELCOME ETHAN AND BIG CONGRATS TO LIL MISS!! Its soo good to see another fed up LTTTC'er finally get her wish Its beautiful isnt it that after all the hard years of waiting and and trying and seeing so many people getting pregnant so easy then finally finding herself there and getting through the long pregnancy wait to hear another healthy bubba has blessed his mummys life
Sorry if that sounds corny or outwardly religious, its not Im just feeling very happy for her especially after the last entry when she was so damn fed up with waiting!
Want baby#2 -=- hunni 51 kilos is beyond my wildest dreams lol! I was 55 in high school and Id be lucky to get back down to my pre pregnancy 65kg after this one! Especially considering the amount of chocolate and apple pie with custard Ive been scoffing down the last week! HAHA! Your are such an inspiration being so healthy this whole time and cutting out all the caffiene being so good to yourself and the bubba! What an example of a great well deserving mummy! Your son sounds great! I would be so happy if my lil man turns out as well mannered and caring as that! I thought it was so cute that he is threatening to steal away bubbi to get them away from the swearing! Please dnt be to wrryd about a bit of a belly hun! There is always something thats going to bug us ladies about our bodies no matter what we do and what size we are for me its my chunder thighs.. even more chunderous whilst holding up my lil one! I hate them so much especially considering the rest of my looks relitively small which makes them seem even bigger and more out of proportion.. But hey, it hasnt stopped me eating desserts on thursday nights yet so I suppose it musnt be all THAT bad LOL
Lise -=- It must be hard for you to not be able to share with your friends what youve been through.. Your very sweet respecting your DH's feelings that way and keeping quiet about it all Glad you have plenty of friends to get clucky with now! Does that make you happy or is it a little hard to hear? When I was TTC for well over one year and my GF decided she woulld start trying with her bf of a whopping 3 months.. then fell pregnant.. went through her whole pregnancy and then gave birth and I still wasnt pregnant.. I found it really hard not to be jealose of her.. I just always felt when she was complaining about pregnancy and such that it was so unfair and even felt she was taking it for granted because here she was *****ing to me about it all when I couldnt even concieve.. But at the same time I immersed myself in helping her with everything and became so involved with her pregnancy. We had our 2nd MC just before she had her baby and at that point I felt like giving up and ended up giving her all our baby things.. But it seemed like she didnt even care about us losing our bub and was just happy to be scoring some stuff. I dont know maybe I was just over sensitive at the time.. but it makes me wonder how it will all feel when I hear pg news now.. hm not sure..
AFM -=- well im still here haha isnt it funny how Im already so fed up and wondering why I havnt popped yet even tho I still have 9 days to go! I almost feel guilty for not being mroe patient and at least wait until im over b4 getting grumpy about it lol
Well Im getting some really strange pains today.. I can only describe them as dull stabbing period like pains in my pelvis and through to the back.. they are comeing in waves but there arnt realy any contractions or tighening.. I figure its not labour.. but does anyone know if that is something else like maybe its the cervix softening or something?? Gosh who knos.. guess ill have to wait and see...
wantbaby#2 its great to see we are all here to support you isnt it.. hahaha.. Im more than happy to join in if DH keeps it up so make sure you let us all know kyrawolfe not long to go now. Hope those pains mean something is well and truly happening.
So most of you ladies were/are not not interesting in DTD at all throughout your pregnancy?? Umm i guess my DH can count himself lucky..LOL
Paula - it's not me it's DH!! I can't tempt him for love nor money and I'm about to threaten him with divorce if he doesn't agree to DTD soon...! He's so worried about hurting the chicklet which I think is lovely, but this is way too long!!
Ky - it's funny, now that I'm pregnant I'm perfectly fine when I hear of friends falling pregnant and indeed excited to have friends along for the ride, but when we were still trying I was certainly angry and teary and jealous. DH used to hate telling me about any friends having babies, I was definitely a green eyed monster. That friend of yours doesn't sound like a friend at all, I'm glad you've got friends around you know who seem much nicer! And I hope your pains are a sign of things to come VERY SOON! Will be keeping my fingers crossed for you xx
Wantbaby - you can add me to the list of people willing to hit DH around the head. I'm sure you look just gorgeous and this is not the time for you to be feeling bad about your body. I love my belly and can't wait till it gets even bigger!!
Londonmiss - I think you might be talking about MY thighs there! As for my butt nowdays...!
Well chicklet is going off tonight, I think she's having a disco or something in there she's so active! DH put his face on my belly and she gave him a huge kick on the cheek, hehehe. Put my official application for mat leave in today, so so excited!! Only 17 more working days
Last edited by lise; April 20th, 2010 at 11:07 PM.
lise that is sweet of DH not wanting to hurt chicklet. Hopefully though for your sake he starts to feel more at ease soon and understand that its ok and chicklet is well and truly cushioned in there. Isnt it just the most amazing feeling when they have their little discos inside us. I love it!!
Just had lunch with a friend who has a four month old baby and OMG.. i want my bub out now! I was soooo in love. Totally lost track of time and got back to work late but it was worth it. He was so adorable and pleasant. It amazing to see what will be here and all mine in just a few more months.
gosh, you could wait for years to use a line like that! But I actually was!!! To answer your question - no, we certainly don't do it as much as we used to but still regularly-ish if you see what I mean. Long enough to realise we could give it a go and that would be lovely, and long enough between goes that we forget how bloody logistical the whole thing has become!! Little babydoll nightdresses are the answer in my book, and candles rather than lights. I'm self conscious about my body, despite all this stuff about glowing motherhood making you sexier (and I definitely cannot do it when she's kicking, that's just way too wierd) which I think is a bit idealistic when you have a great big belly to actually contend with. But no, its not quite a drought in our house, more a bit less rain than normal
Those niggly period like stabby ish pains are still comeing every 15 minutes... wish they would progress already! so excited and impatient at the same time! DH has started doing half days at work because hes anxious about being home with me more now helping me sleep more and taking care of DS for me.. and also wanting to be here when things kick off.. He has this big fear that when things happen and if hes at work his co-worker will take forever to get to the shop so he can leave. I really dnt think jelly bean is far away now my bellies! Continueing to drink my raspberry leaf tea (which is yummy with honey btw) and curry food chillis etc... speaking of dtd have given up on that one LOL way to hard to manouvre now! but lets just wait and see I think Im close girls i really do
Its beautiful isnt it that after all the hard years of waiting and and trying and seeing so many people getting pregnant so easy then finally finding herself there and getting through the long pregnancy wait to hear another healthy bubba has blessed his mummys life
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