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  1. #1
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    Jan 2010
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    Hi Ladies,
    It's hard to keep up in here at the moment! great to see some new ladies in here, welcome and hoping you have a h and h pregnancy

    Paula – hoping you get some updates soon, but babies seem to arrive when they want to rather than when WE want them to.

    Renee – great news you can feel the baby kicking – it’s such an amazing experience.

    Dusty – congratulations on the birth of Freya!

    Sweetie – If it helps at all, I have discovered that extremely high HCG levels DON'T necessarily mean you are having twins – although I know Brunette would love a twin buddy in here! My HCG levels were WAY above anything I could find on any website telling me anything other than I was having at least twins and easily triplets. I spent two weeks stressing about it (having a child already and then having twins was not the ideal) - but I only have one healthy little bubba in there. I only had one embryo replaced and with both pregnancies my HCG levels were way above any ‘normal’ levels and my due date hasn’t changed so they numbers just were ridiculously high all on their own! Make sure you are comparing the same dpo as people quote HCG levels without making any reference to their dpo which means you really can’t compare them.

    Hi to everyone I have missed!

    Drugs for headaches - Both Paracetamol and Codeine are class A, but like Juniper said, use codeine only when you need it and not long-term. I cannot stress enough that a GP is not the best person to ask about whether a drug is safe in pregnancy. In the past three months I have been prescribed three drugs from two different GP’s (one was a locum) and all are harmful during pregnancy, even though I told both I was pregnant. Doctors don’t generally know without looking up their ‘book’ which as I have discovered means they know not more than us. A specialist GP who deals with pregnancy, a midwife or OB is going to be much better than a GP but your pharmacist is the best person to give advice as it’s their job to know about the impacts of the pharmacy items they are dispensing. If it wasn’t for me asking the pharmacists to double check they are safe in pregnancy, all three drugs could have caused serious problems for me and the baby. I was talking about this on Saturday to one of my mother’s groups friends who is a lecturer in pharmacy and was horrified after talking to her that it is all too common for doctors to recommend in particular over the counter drugs that aren’t safe for pregnancy.

    Soft cheeses –As Juniper says you CAN eat pasteurised soft cheeses including Brie and Camembert which we are all 'told' not to eat. The warning for soft cheeses is aimed at countries where cheeses aren’t pasteurised. You can read if a cheese is pasteurised on the ingredients as they clearly say pasteurised milk on them if they are made from it - which obviously you check if you are out at a party. I had a big discussion with my OB about this as I had food poisoning at 29 weeks from eating cooked fish with my DD which is the reason I know this. I still won’t eat cold meats, cold cooked or uncooked seafood or food at parties etc where I don’t know where they have been though, going back to using good old common sense

    AFM – Had my scan last week and have one healthy bubba measuring the right size. I think it’s a boy but of course have absolutely no idea if it is! Still pretty sick but are starting to feel better which is VERY exciting.

  2. #2
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    May 2009
    Brisbane
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    but your pharmacist is the best person to give advice as it’s their job to know about the impacts of the pharmacy items they are dispensing.
    This is very true. My SIL is a pharmacist and she has seen patients come in with two prescriptions issued by the same doctor at the same time, that when taken together would have killed the patient. Some doctors are oblivious when it comes to the medications they prescribe. When I called my OB about my cold, I was just told to speak to a pharmacist and find out what they recommended. The only trick is finding a good pharmacist (skip the discount chemists and go to a more traditional pharmacy where they are more willing to spend the time giving advice).

    Lairdoz, glad to hear bub is doing well. Good to hear you're starting to feel better too!

  3. #3
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    Apr 2010
    116

    Checking in alot today but figured I should as will be busy at work the rest of the week!

    Lairdoz - great to hear that your scan went well, and that you are starting to feel better.

    All this talk about medications is a bit scary - I had a double course of antibiotics when I was first pregnant for my sinus infection. Dr said they were class A which is ok to take. I didn't check with the pharmacist as I knew the girl working there and had only just found out I was preg. And she can't keep a secret so didn't want to tell her. I suppose it's no use worrying about it now.

    Does anyone know how early you can find out the sex of the baby?

    After my DS woke up today I was giving him a cuddle and found nits in his hair. Gross. Found 4 of the little suckers. Went to pharmacy and got the 'natural' stuff as she said the chemical stuff can hurt the scalp. Then had to remove bedding for all our beds and remake them. Washing tonight and will probably take to mums in morning to put in dryer as there is no stop to the rain at the moment.

    Well might go and crash in front of tv. My head feels itchy!!!

  4. #4
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    Mar 2010
    Brisbane, Queensland
    121

    Thanks MaggiePie - now MY head is itchy!!!!!!

    Hi to everyone, sorry I haven't been on for a while, this new job is 8hrs of staring at a computer screen and very much data entry, so I'm trying to do my share and not let the team down as I feel like I'm not up to their speed. I've always managed staff, not been one of the staff taking directions so this is really strange for me. I can't just take 15mins to slack off (and jump on here), and when I get home there's housework and couch time and napping to do.

    Won't do many persies, but Renee congrats on reaching the halfway mark and feeling those kicks through your placenta, mine's at the back but I don't know how much the placenta ends up shifting position during the 9mths?

    Brunette - glad you enjoyed your friend's wedding and mini babymoon. Hope it wasn't too cold down there for you, although with your two littlies you'd be running pretty warm body temp-wise wouldn't you? We also bought up a few things at the Big W sale, but unlike you I had to stick to neutrals :-( grabbed 2 doz cloth nappies, although I don't know how long I can keep up the the whole 'cloth' thing but I'm going to give it a red hot poke.

    Paula - good news that the mucous plug 'fell out' (um, is that the right term? maybe I should just say 'lost' your mucous plug!), so hopefully you should be posting your good news within the next week - yay!

    OMG I'm like 6th or 7th on the list - how did THAT happen so quickly!? I hope time with new baby doesn't fly as quick as the pregnancy has. Had my 4th nose bleed today, super gross, that's one pregnancy thing that I won't miss. Other than that, and a sore back (probably more from not moving from my desk for 8hrs) I am flying through this pregnancy and feel fantastic! I LOVE my belly, I've put on about 5.5kg so far and am on track for about 13-15kg all up.

    Welcome to all the newly UTD ladies and I hope your 9mths is smooth sailing.

    Chrissy xx.

  5. #5
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    May 2009
    Melbourne
    272

    Hi Everyone!
    So great to see so many new people! Congrats Sue and Shelly!
    Hope everyone's well.
    Renee, congrats on reaching halfway and feeling kicks. I wonder about that all the time, what will it feel like etc? It must be amazing. Also, feel free to add me to the list (EDD is 7 Feb).
    Lairdoz, so glad to hear that your scan went well!
    MaggiePie, I remember getting nits quite a bit at primary school and my mum using that really nasty "comb" which was just like a flat piece of metal with tiny slits in it. God, that was painful. We also used vinegar (and another chemical that's probably banned now - it was the 80s!). Anyway, the nurse used to try and comfort the kids by saying they only like "the best hair". Maybe say that to your DH! I'm sure he'd appreciate it! Also I think that you can find out the sex at your 20 week scan (or earlier, maybe even 14 weeks onwards, possibly?).
    Hi to everyone else!
    AFM, just feeling hungry always and a bit wiped out mentally.

  6. #6
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    Nov 2009
    511

    Maggie, thanks for all the tips on reducing swelling. I'm at home today and about to go upstairs and find my swimsuit to see if I still fit into it! Then I'll have a dip in our local pool this weekend You can find out the sex of your baby at the 12-week scan, although it's probably not as accurate as the 20-week scan. Our sonographer was 75-80% sure of gender at the 12-week scan and 95% sure at the 20-week scan. You obviously didn't find out the gender the 1st time round with your son? Sorry to hear MS has started for you. Did you get it when PG with your son?

    Juniper, re the cholesterol issue, saw our OB yesterday and apparently the reason mine is high (or higher than usual) is due to being PG. Cholesterol is a derivative of oestrogen, or vice versa. So that makes sense.

    Lairdoz, you are right; I would like a twin buddy in here Good to hear your scan went well and MS is starting to ease for you.

    Hi Chrissy, was at my OB's yesterday and thought about you as I walked past your OB's office You sound really busy with work and home commitments. It is scary just how fast our pregnancies are going, isn't it? You're 6th or 7th on the list and I think I'm 8th (although I'll probably beat you and a few before me, as I doubt I'll get to my EDD of 24 December!) I'm starting to appreciate and savour the peace and quiet that no doubt will forever be shattered once the twins arrive! I didn't see any cloth nappies at Big W; damn, as I wanted to get some - not for the babies bottoms but for spillage purposes, burping etc. I'm not even trying cloth nappies; it's disposables all the way for me, as I doubt I'll have enough time to sneeze let alone wash 18 nappies or more a day. I've put on 5.6 kilos so far, so only 0.1 more than you I'm quite scared about how much more I'm going to have to carry around. My OB never seems concerned about weight whenever I bring it up with him.

    AFM, as I say above, had an appt with our OB yesterday and apparently I'm cooking these babies just fine. My BP was the lowest yet, at 120/70. Nothing much to be concerned about re sore feet, swelling, sore back and coccyx - just side-effects of being UTD, I'm afraid Quickly saw both bubs and heartbeats. They had moved a bit and both of their heads were quite close together at this look - how cute.

  7. #7
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    May 2009
    Brisbane
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    Eeek! Just booked the dentist for tomorrow. It's embarrassing to say, but it's been 17.5 years since I saw a dentist, so this may be scary...

    Maggie, GL eradicating those nits. I remember mum buying this orange stuff when my sister's class had an outbreak...

    Chrissy, good work on the weight management! I hope I can do as well as you.

    Brunette, good to hear the appt went well! Sounds like you're doing a great job!

    Afm, aside from facing my fear and calling a dentist, today I'm quite hungry. I bought some muesli bars to keep in my desk and at this rate they may not last the week. So, I think I'll go make a cheese & tomato toasted sandwich...

  8. #8
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    Oct 2007
    Brisbane, QLD
    438

    ok ladies a few things happened today. I shaved my legs for the first time in 2weeks since my last acupuncture appointment (welllll, it's winter and I can't be bothered doing much right now!) but it was in honour of my appointment with my FS. I had an internal scan and yes, yes, yes we saw a strong heartbeat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Soo soo happy. Tears were shed by me and DH.
    We didn't hear or know beats per minute, but Dr said it was a good strong one. Before he scanned he asked how I felt and when I said nausea and fatigue, he said he's not really interested in the nausea, it's the tiredness that means a healthy pregnancy going on. He said he was confident we'd see a heartbeat and he was right. He also amended the due date from the one his receptionist gave me. He took the tranfer date of FET and subtracted the no. of days old the embryo was and so he predicted 7wks 4days today, which was corroborated with the scan. So new due date, therefore new ticker (again!) of 30th March!! ;-)

    He was very reassuring and said once you've seen a heartbeat then 98% pregnancys go to healthy full term. I gave him a big hug when we left....even though he was on holiday when I had the transfer, he made us feel better about the whole situation we were in.

    Moving up and down the screen doesn't make me feel very well, so I'm going for a nap and will write some persies tonight when DH is working.
    Yeh I get to tell my parents on Thursday x ps ok soooo confused. FS said 7wks 4 days, scan said the same, but when I put in due date for ticker it says 7wks 6 days!!?? I give up, but we all know baby will come when it wants to!
    Last edited by airline; August 17th, 2010 at 03:14 PM.

  9. #9
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    Aug 2008
    408

    Hello lovelies!

    I am very excited to announce that Tiana Isabel has arrived! Weighing a very healthy 3.8kg and 51cm. Both Tiana and Paula are doing brilliantly.

    Will be making a formal post in the BAs shortly!