Pregnancy after LT TTC #20

[Bengal]

Teirae : I completely understand, and when I was ltttc, I couldn't understand why anyone would complain about anything when they finally got a bfp. However now I understand, what my FS/OB told me is that we loose a sense of being in control when we get pregnant, it's a control you have in ttc, you decide if there is another cycle, you decide how many to transfer, you have these immense highs and lows, then all of a sudden, it works, and you can't control anything, the nausea, the vomiting, all of the fantasy goes out the door, and we are left with all these RAGING hormones that just ravage your thoughts and fears,a lot of which as a ltt er you never actually realeased. He said it is very common for women to feel like this after ivf, you have a lot of unresolved emotion



What he did say is that he has no doubt that with the drive, determination and persistence I had to get to hs place, I will be an amazing mum, who will cope just fine

We are probably on the other end of each others spectrums, and neither is wrong or right,we can hopefully support each other until hopefully these hormones and or thoughts dissipate x