I have had trouble logging in too.

No we are not telling the kids the gender (or anyone else). We want to keep some surprises.

As for work I'm working up until I am 38weeks. Hoping Bub arrives around then. 3 of my 4 have spontaneously and the only one that didn't had placental issues (it was packing it in at 39wks) He was growth restricted and I started haemorrhaging. Fingers crossed to avoid that this time.

Sounds like your in good hands with regular appointments