Thanks Kar.. The parents birthweight thing is why I baffled. I was 7lb12oz and DH was 7lb 6oz. My brother was 7lb11 and sister 7lb6 so not big!!
My best frind had a bad experience with my 9lb8oz godson, all the medicos had told her he was big and then let her go 12days over before inducing her which resulted in an awful 40hour ordeal ending in a c-s and them admitting he would never have fit. Then due to the lengthy labour she had a temp so they took the bub away for 48hrs!! I guess I am fearing that.
I see my OB on thursday so I will discuss my concerns with him.