thread: A vent about having an only child!!

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    May 2009
    SEQLD
    2,308

    People can be very insensitive at times. xxxx
    Just that and more

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Member

    Feb 2007
    3,734

    very insensitive!!
    I understand you missing her when she is at school... and I hope it all happens for you again one day. xxx

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Sep 2006
    Beaudesert, QLD
    1,169

    thanks heaps everyone...i feel so much better already lol you guys are awesome

    And you know what.....even if i did have more kids, i'm not going to change!! I LOVE KIDS and if am lucky and blessed to have 1,2,3 more...i will still feel the same, i will STILL miss them when they go back to school, i will STILL love school holidays.

    I love being a mum, i love spending every second i can with my child.......and that WONT change if i have more! i will want to spend as much time as i can with them too!

    Thats who i am, its how i work and that wont change no matter how many kids i have.

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jan 2007
    on the sunny Eastern Shore
    1,165

    oh that in insensitive!!

    on the other end of the spectrum, if I'm complaining and having a bad day I get told "well...you do have 3 kids and one on the way!" stupid me.

    your feelings are valid and no it doesn't make you LESS of a Mum, if anything it makes you more....

    xxx

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Sep 2006
    Beaudesert, QLD
    1,169

    thanks heaps everyone, i feel so much better after reading all your replies

    becstar i cant believe people are saying things like that people can be so, so nasty!!
    why cant people just be nice?? is it to much to ask for?

    GGGRRRRR make me so angry!

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jun 2009
    In a cottage in a wood
    760

    I get so angry with people who think it's their business to comment on how many kids or 'if' someone has kids at all!

    Chloe is sooo lucky to have chosen you for her mummy, you obviously adore her, and good on you for being the best mummy you can be.