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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    Brisbane
    45

    I am going to bury my head in the sand

    I have decided that I can not cope with any tests or ultra sounds whilst my husband is out of town. So I am going to cancel my bt for the morning and the ultrasound ( second opinion) on Tuesday so that I can just imagine everything is humming along nicely for the week.
    I think it is some form of denial but it should get me throught the wait. I can always keep more positive without any bad news I guess
    Feeling the same as above and very tired, all the right things.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Manly, Australia
    43

    If that is the best strategy for you, then go for it. I can understand your need to have the support of your DH during this time. Take care of yourself.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    Sydney NSW
    4,837

    i think whatever gets you through is the right thing to do hun.

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    Somewhere Over The Rainbow
    3,094

    hun - thats what helped me this time around, I refused any scans till 12 weeks and only had a couple of BT's to check on the HCG.

    I preferred to sit back, not stress and let my little unit have peace and quiet. Of course we will never really know if this helped at all, but after 2 mc's this little one certainly stuck! (I am sure, deep down, that my attitude in the first 12 weeks had much to do with it).

    Hang in there little one!

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Aug 2007
    Perth
    425

    Poppihome: Big yeah to the return of MS and sore boobs, that is such a positive sign! I really hope that this week flies by for you and DH can get home and you can experience some wonderful news together next week. Senidng you loads of good cybervibes

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    Brisbane
    45

    Thank you so much for your support.

  7. #7
    BellyBelly Member

    Feb 2007
    On the beautiful Gold Coast!
    1,930

    I just came across this thread & wanted to wish you all the very best. I truely hope your little banana peanut is hanging on & will have a nice surprise for you when test time arrives.

    I'll keep you in my thoughts & prayers. Miracles can & do happen!

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Jan 2005
    1,271

    Poppihome, pray for the best result and a miracle at the end of the wait. All the symptoms sound very positive and hang in there...

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    outer South East Melbourne
    2,881

    I am so sorry for your loss. Make sure you take care of each other through this very difficult time.

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    Brisbane
    45

    Thank you so much. I am doing well, just concentrating on getting some weight off so that we can have some more luck naturally. This site has been fantastic!!
    Cheers
    T

  11. #11
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    mid north coast, nsw
    1,644

    Glad you are doing OK and looking forward. sending you all the best