hey

just had a really big talk with dp and we both have agreed that its best to wait until after the ultrasound. we dont really need the money and its not like my job is at risk cos they have already told me that my hours are going to be reduced after christmas, plus i know that i will be getting the cold shoulder from them cos i have had a week off already, they really hate people taking time off and there so nasty about it
mind you my boss is 24 has never had kids and would never understand what is going on

thanks again for your replies, you have made me feel alot better. I need to put this little bubba first and thats what i am going to do