What would you do??

[mummy2chloe]

hey

just had a really big talk with dp and we both have agreed that its best to wait until after the ultrasound. we dont really need the money and its not like my job is at risk cos they have already told me that my hours are going to be reduced after christmas, plus i know that i will be getting the cold shoulder from them cos i have had a week off already, they really hate people taking time off and there so nasty about it
mind you my boss is 24 has never had kids and would never understand what is going on

thanks again for your replies, you have made me feel alot better. I need to put this little bubba first and thats what i am going to do

[JodieC65]

Hi M2C, I only just read your post, so sorry I couldn't get to reply earlier on today. I am glad that you have talked with DP and that you have a plan. I think that all the other girls have said the same as what I would have. After all you have been through sweetie, you most certainly need to do what is best for baby and you. Smithy is so right in saying that the least they could do is give you a chair. Oh it sounds like a very horrible place to work - I will be thinking about you over the weekend and trust that all goes well with the BT and US next week.

Wrap yourself in all the cotton wool you need. You had better have your feet up right now young lady.......

Take care xoxo

[tiggerlinda]

Sounds like plan sweet I hope all goes well

[briggsy's girl]

so glad you could come to a decision that both you and DP are happy with. sometimes it's hard to make a call if you have opinions that are at odds with each other (some would have a partner that think the distraction is important) - so i'm happy that you've devised a plan between you.

i am very thankful that i have a partner like that - he has supported me in having 10 weeks off work to manage morning sickness, and has told me i can take my entire pregnancy off without pay if it means making sure myself and the gremlin are happy and healthy. i WANT to go back to work for the social aspect, but it makes it easier to be calm about staying home when i have his support.

good luck next week with results babe

BG

[barney]

yay for you sweety im so glad you and dh have come to a decion.
i really think you need to do the best thing for you ,it took so long to get this bub and your doing a great job there so all the best to you and i hope your pg goes wonderfully for you ..
AS for you boss god help that boss if he or she eva needs ivf or has trouble conceving people like that just dont get it my boss was the same and i said go to hell

GOOD LUK cant wait till your scan