Hi FG,

I dont think its a strange question at all. Personally, I've only had two put back once and neither decided to stay but I will say that every single embryo I've had transferred I still think about and wonder 'what if'.

IVF is so unique in that you actually see your 'children' from the very beginning. I think what you are feeling is probably natural. I also think as you are about to have Tex the whole process is so much more real - you know that tiny embryo you saw on transfer day actually becomes a real live baby, and there was one that didn't get that chance. It's all so real to you now.

Not too helpful but wanted to let you know that your feelings make sense to me. Best of luck for a wonderful birth and finally getting to meet your Tex!