Firstly, huge congratulations!!

And I was completely the same so I'd say it's very normal to not want to get attached after a loss, it look me til 20 ish weeks to feel 'close' to DS whilst UTD and now I'm 5 weeks and once again feel the same, I have to keep reminding myself that I'm pg, that's how interested in this pregnancy I am lol I no it will get better as time goes on but I it's my head and hearts way of not getting attached. I hope all goes well and you have a h&h 9 months xx