I'm so sorry for your loss hun . I absolutely agree with every one else about taking time to grieve for your little angel, that's so important in order for you to eventually move forward with TTC. I think most people mean well with saying 'everything happens for a reason', I am a big believer of that. When I lost my first little boy in 2008, I really struggled for a while, but with my DF's & my friends' support, I eventually got there.
Please don't question your actions going through with the D&C as it was the right choice for you hun. Unfortunately sometimes the little one has a HB at 6 weeks but further down the track it fails to progress as it should, and it really is the natures way of letting us know there was something wrong. Nature can be very cruel sometimes, but it does serve a purpose.
When you are ready you will try again, and chances are your second pg will be fine. Don't give up hun, it's amazing how many first time pg end up in m/s, but subsequent ones are OK. I did find the second time around hard, perticularly for the first 12 weeks!
GL and I wish you all the very best in your journey.
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