Congratulations hun! Yes, exactly what the other ladies have said, it's pretty scary and it's hard to be excited, but you just have to have faith and cross your fingers and toes that everything will turn out OK.
I remember feeling so anxious for weeks when I got pregnant after a M/C, especially around the 10/11 week mark as this is when I lost the baby. Once I had that 12 week scan and it was all good my anxiety eased - it was a shame the morning sickness didn't ease too!
Thankyou for the continued replies and support everyone, I really appreciate it.
Today I am having a struggle in myself, I feel so teary, like the wave of grief is back again... I can't say I feel scared, because I don't feel scared, but at the same time I don't know what is going to happen. So with that has come some tears, I probably just need a big cry and talk about it IRL, but that requires me telling someone and I am not sure that I am ready for that either! My DH is having is own stuff come up about it all, what we went through was a lot more painful for him then I had thought, I guess I was caught up in the process at the time that I really wasn't able to see his pain.
So today is a challenging day...coming here and reading the posts have helped, so thankyou again.....
where are you? If you're in Perth, I'm happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat, shoulder to cry on or whatever you need. The uncertainty of it all is very difficult.
I agree with everything everyone else has said. I was/am still scared everyday that its not real and that something will go wrong. I am hoping that this feeling will slowly go away and let me enjoy the pregnancy, but even if it does not, it makes it even more special that its happening.
Go with what feels right and good for you and I am sure you will be just fine. Hugs
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