pg after loss of twins

[kelbel]

Hi I've just found out I'm 5 weeks

3 years ago I had ID twins boys who were born at 22 weeks, and died shortly afterwards.

In that 3 years, my marriage has broken up...and I have a new partner, we've been together nearly 18 months.

I also have a 4 1/2 year old with my ex husband.

I'm quite terrified about being pg, although I always wanted to have more children since loosing the twins. My ex DH didn't feel the same way and that added to stress, grief, etc.

As yet we haven't shared our very recent news with anyone, and don't plan to until the first trimester is passed.

I know it's quite normal to be anxious already, just wanted to be amongst those who know and understand.

Today I've been feeling really 'heavy' which isn't making me feel all that confident, I guess I'll just have to wait and see how things go.

Thanks for listening

[ElleJay]

Congrats on the pregnancy

[Lily Dust]

Hi kelbel

Welcome to BellyBelly, firstly I am so sorry that you have endured such an awful time of things with the lose of your little twins. But also such a big congrats on your 'now' pregnancy. BB is full of wonderfully supportive people and I am sure many people will be more than helpful with the anxious time ahead. Pregnancy after loss is such a bittersweet time.

Wishing you lots of sticky vibes for your little one

Lily Dust

[Mum2Romone]

Hi Hunny,

I know that heavy feeling and I experienced it from 8 weeks until about 20 weeks. The doctors said it was ligaments stretching but I know what you mean. Just take it easy and take care of yourself... Im sure everything will work out just great, We now have a 18mth old little terror, Congratulations on your pregnancy...