You've asked the right girl. DO NOT BUY A DOPPLER! They can and do and often will cause more pain than they are worth. It is notoriously difficult to hear a heartbeat at your stage & even close to 20 weeks. Please practice letting go. I really do know how stressful this is. I lost 3 babies in my second trimester - so I get it.
Right now is the time to give over - trust in your body & the Universe that the best outcome will happen. Sadly late losses and subsequently stillbirths do happen - most of the time we just don't ever have the answer to why. However, the chances of this happening are statistically minimal - please try hard to focus on that.
Talk to your baby and tell her/him you want her/him to stay, that you love them, cherish them & look forward to holding them. For now darling woman, try hard to let this go.
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