its perfectly safe, and I don't believe that this pregnancy is at any greater risk of loss in a general sense because you didn't get AF. Its a little bit like mums who BF then get pregnant without AF first....they just got lucky on the ovulation that has to occur before AF can come!
I am in the same situation, in that I had my D/C a month ago, then 6 days ago got what I thought was AF. When I went to the IVF clinic (to start blood tests for another IVF cycle) the next day, my HCG was measured as being increased. Another test 2 days later confirmed I was PG naturally.
Whether this little one will survive or not is uncertain. I am 41 so there is a risk of loss because of my age (50% I think). My little angel was diagnosed after DC with trisomy7, so this is in my mind.
Congratulations to you both...
All pregnancy's have a risk. All you can is be careful that you don't do risky things that can cause m/c.
I know that after my m/c I had alot of probs and then it took forever to get preg once I got the green light from the FS.
I know it is hard not to worry, as you have had a m/c. I had alot of problems during the preg with Miss D. Just keep thinking of the end result " the little bundle of love" That is what got me through all the hospital stays.
So I hope you have a trouble free pregnancy and a happy and healthy bundle of love at the end.
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