Thanks for your speedy reply, Melster. I'm private, but on our first visit with this pregnancy I asked him about a bleed and he said he doesn't want to know about bleeding :$ He said there is no problem at all with a bleed, lots of women bleed according to him... With my mm/c there were no symptoms whatsoever, besides the HCG rising very very slowly, but got up to an acceptable level after a while. Still he could see from the scan it wasn't going to be alive a week later when we did the 2nd scan. This time he was very optimistic about our little one, but that was over 2 weeks ago.
The pains were just slightly crampy, like AF, but all over my belly and lower back. (normally with af only lower back is sore, as I've retroverted uterus) I went for a walk but had to walk really slowly and walk back home as it was so sore. Then settled again after sitting down and rested for most of that day. I don't have any loss of pregnancy symptoms, still extremely tired, feeling good on and off. Tender breasts, and those vivid vivid dreams. And belly is still growing.
I'll see what the acupuncturist says and might call the ob afterwards and see what they say.