Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss #7

Hey

Is anyone else getting achy period type pains???? There not real painful as such. It's not Braxton's. It's kinda hard to explain
I hope it's just coz the baby is getting bigger and it's stretching pains rather than anything else. Step daughter has left... All the mother is worried about is what money her or her sister will get. The other kids came over , feel like there blaming me plus I'm Not sure if they knew I was pregnant. It's dd second bday today so just celebrating that today

Yeah you normally have sections early to avoid labour and having an emergency. Although both times I have had to have them at 37 weeks.

No Mel that means even less time ahhhhhhhhhhhh feel like I've been procrastinating a lot lately. Maybe I just need the rest of my stuff "work" to be settled. I seem to be getter worse at multi tasking.

As for pain I'd say baby growing or you've been doing too much. With ds sick I've lifted him a couple of times and my tummy feels sore. I've been getting a few "capow" tripe stabbing pains around my belly button, I've blamed ds and df but although it felt external it wasn't bit weird. Hope bday celebrations go well. It's always easier for step kids to blame the non paternal adult, even as kids get older blaming their biological parent is the last resort. Been on the end of that a few times.

My previous OB did them at 38.5 or 37.5 but mine ended up 36.6
My current one does them at 39!!!
My endocrinologist won't let me go past 38

Oh my goodness! Despite being in limbo & waiting to see what that scan shows we just bided on a pram/bassinet/capsule on eBay!! I've been researching & every design I liked was not practical price wise so we had a look on eBay & surprise! DP is even happy to pay for it & pick it up tomorrow. :D sorry, I just wanted to share my happiness :)

Just went & picked up our eBay purchase :) Yay!! And today is the first time I've felt really seedy since last week so am feeling a lot more positive. Trying on jeans & realising I only have 1 pair that still fit almost made me cry so off to check out the maternity section at Kmart. Didn't realise my hips & belly had changed so much. :o

:)
Soooooo exciting!!!!!!!!
That all sounds so positive!!

I think I had my first EVER (like I never had for past pregnancies) braxton hicks today kinda shocked me... But a nice reminder of bubba...

Just popping in quickly before I can only access fb again (Vodafail fails) to say that OB appt went well, bp down, way down, 108/68 and no protein! How awesome is that? Got GTT results (repeat normal gestation test) and all good there. Other tests I have no idea, I not long called to book another appt as he definitely forgot to check them as I remembered not long ago that I was supposed to have my anti-D today lol. Still have swelling and have had high readings at different points and different readings so not sure if things are good, better or just fluctuating. I can't blow balloons via mouth anymore as I get pretty white sparkly spots dancing around for about 5mins and last night when DTD (I am determined to have a love life, even if it hurts and we have to not do so some nights lol) I was on top and just about passed out when I O'd. Had to lay down immediately otherwise I would have. Did let OB know that one though so I could get the ok to still DTD. Too much blood can go to the uterus, especially with how large it is now.

I will be back when I can use DP's PC to do perssies

:wall::wall::wall::redface::redface::redface:

I have completely and utterly had it........

So far..

Car fail
Phone fail
glasses fail

is that my 3 bad things and is it over now..???????????????

So far i have had my breaks fail and had to pay 700.00...then to fix the door 450.00..then some sensor 400.00
Yesterday DD2 spilt a whole cup of milk on my iphone.......mmmmmmmmmmm soaked in rice...not working..need new phone
then someone steps on my glasses for vision.....cant be fixed and need a new pair

Step daughter moves out...drop in centerlink..pay back money

mmmmmm and thats not the end of it...the list goes on and on and on........

im so stressed...and getting pains still.......period type pains.......

Greenslw - any job news?? How was date night?

Duchess would you like to "nest" at my place lol, my kitchens a mess.

Damprye - good news about the drop in BP & I nearly pmsl at your "determined to have a love life" statement - go girl! :D

Melstar have you put your phone in a bowl & covered it with rice? Apparently if you leave it over night the rice draws the moisture out of the circuits.
Also centrelink cannot make you pay back more than you can afford, have you spoken about a payment plan? That way you can nominate your repayment amount.
Can your glasses be claimed on insurance? How frustrating for you! Hope belly pains ease off and don't cause too much worry.

How are you kbudgie?

We got accepted for a rental today (happy dance) which saves us $20 a wk & is a bigger, more baby friendly house :) Belly feels tight & feels like I'm stretching. Decided to not have my hcg levels checked this week as I will have a definite answer at the scan on Friday.

Melster- bloody heck, something needs to go right soon :hugs:

Tictoc- yays on the better house :)

I just had my scan. Bub is now transverse and finally got to see her brain lol

Tick tok...yeah i put it into some rice and covered it all yesterday/last night and today...i ended up getting a new phone, it will probably cost me an extra 30.00 a month...ill see what happens with my bill...

Yeah i will have to speak to centerlink, and then live off less money..and have to sort out that and Child support etc....cant believe the ex was only texting and spewing about money.....not to talk to him about the incident that happened with her or that she has gone up to one of her relatives house.....that woman makes me so mad

and we dont have insurance....we have to pay the babies fees next week but i have rang her and asked if i can pay it the next time and hopefully i would have my tax done by then.

Hopefully some of this starts sorting it self out..

Im really starting to worry about the baby....i can feel her kicking but i feel like i have constant pressure as well as tightness and period pains..im just not sure if its normal and if i should be worrying about it...its not sharp pains...but like heavy/dull/aching/full pains..so hard to describe..

Fighting with hubby and all the rest is not helping and worrying about the step kids situation and feeling there blaming me...

congratulations on the new plc tt..

Thanks damprye.....hope things get better for you

Hello everyone else...

:hug: Mel, no one should have to deal with that much stress

So I had tenants moving in tomorrow and now I don't.
Not happy :(
There was two weeks between our old and new tenants and another agent had a keen buyer so I said see what you can do in those two weeks otherwise its off the market for 12 months.
I didn't realise how serious or positive the inspections were and didn't say anything to other agent who arranged tenants.
Today they found out we had a second inspection today, then they rang and abused me for selling the house without telling them. Which is not true, they then told our tenants to go elsewhere :/

So now we have a contract yay but they don't know yet there are no tenants so I dot know of they will still want to go through.
Really needed that stress.
Hopefully will find out ASAP if it all good still.

I also hope miss 2 finally gets the all clear tomorrow from hand foot and mouth, he had it for almost 2 weeks... And give it to my adult brother the week he started new job :/

Baby kicks everyday and loves about and keeps me feeling positive about pregnancy.

Have rental inspection tomorrow so have to clean this place :/

Melstar-- if you are unsure about pains just ring ob or midwife, it can't hurt to ask, I hope everything sorts itself out ASAP

Tictock-- count down to scan!!! :)


Damprye-- so all was good with bub and brain :)

I am still here, so very tired. I thought the 2nd trimester was meant to bring more energy? !? could be residual jet lag I guess

Mel :hug: :hug: :hug: yes no more bad luck for you. Have you been lifting the kids? My belly is so sore today after ds being sooky and needing loads of cuddles.

Tic toc sounds like you are in a positive mood great only 3 more sleeps :)

Kbudgie hope energy kicks in soon.

Duchess hope tenants get sorted soon and yay for kicks and feeling positive.

Damprye sounds like a good scan.

Me no job news but not giving up two others in my office went for it to and they don't know so not over till the fat lady sings right or maybe pg lady :lol:
Ds is on the mend thank goodness. My belly is sore today and feeling ms hope it isn't gastro just me over doing it.

thankyou for all my hugs!!!!!!!!!!

Duchess i hope all youre house stuff sorts out!!

Kbudgie.....i think the jet lag would defiantly not help...i defiantly felt better this second tri..but i am starting to get tired again

greenslw....thanks.....i have a 2 yr old but nothing out of the ordinary...i think im going to put it down to stress and maybe the baby growing and my belly growing.....i think if it gets really painful or the baby stops moving ill ring...illl keep crossing my fingers for you for youre job..hopefully they tell you soon

My friend had her baby today...yayyy now for my cousin.......babies babies......

Man, I either have all day sickness or my body's not liking what I've eaten - have been queasy all day, feels like I'm getting gastro or AF. Had to walk around the block this afternoon to get fresh air as I didn't think I was going to be able to finish work without it. Have been noticing more cramps over the last few days & feeling more fatigued. House is a mess & we have visitors coming this weekend but I don't have the energy to clean.

2 sleeps until the scan, starting to feel very nervous but also excited.

Hope everyone has had a good "hump" day :)

With the twins I had terrible morning sickness from week 9 til week 16
Friday will be here before you know it!!