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thread: Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss #8

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    Lol I'm a thread killer by the looks of it

    Have my OB and specialist apointments today, yay

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    Lol damprye, I'm here but didn't want to write as I'm feeling extremely negative - if you have nothing nice to say then say nothing right?
    Just want Monday to hurry up, have no pregnancy symptoms at all & think my belly may actually be smaller than it was a week ago. Very scared & it's on my mind 24/7.

    Good luck with your Ob & specialist appointment, I hope they tell you of some magic treatment that will keep bub in there safe & sound til 37 weeks

    How is everyone else traveling along?

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    Oh, just to clarify - when I said I'm feeling negative & have nothing nice to say I mean that in regards to myself & how I'm feeling, it's not how I feel about you lovely ladies

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    HI ladies,
    just joining in. I am just over six weeks pg. My m/c was prior to DD1, so I had a very nervous pg with DD1. I was a bit more calm with DD2 - I didn't feel the need to post here at that time, but this time I do feel a lot more nervous about this pg. I just feel a lot more discomfort (not quite cramping) this time around, and it doesn't help that I can't get my blood test results as my dr is away and the receptionist won't give it out! I have to wait until tomorrow.....

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    hugs ticktoc xx hopefully it's just the bloat going down and symptoms fading from getting closer to trimester number 2 x

    afm morphology scan went well all is where it should be. gender is still secret as we want it to be. I have been told placenta is at the front so will be a little longer until I feel bub

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    Welcome milly, sorry you have to wait until tomorrow to get your results - can the receptionist get another dr to have a look at the results so you don't have to wait until tomorrow?

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    Tick Tok..... I hope Monday comes around fast for you. Can completely understand the way you feel . I was like that before all my scans and extremely scared. Try and keep ur mind occupied and yourself busy. I will cross everything that its all ok. Thinking of you ...

    Milly5 ... Congratulations and welcome. Hope you have good results.

    Kbudgie ... I'm glad all is well with you

    Hello everyone else.

    Been getting a few braxtons. I'm so extremely exhausted its not funny...but I can't sleep or rest. Been feeling a few pains below on my bones .. Like there spreading apart... I weighed myself and I have put on 16 kilos... Better watch these next ten weeks ....

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    Ticktoc- I post whatever, positive or negative. I figure I need to get it out somewhere that isn't just for me and here is safe. Plus it kinda doubles as a journal lol. After pregnancy and I have recovered, I copy and paste my AFM parts of my posts into a word doc on my laptop. I done the same with my PND posts

    Milly- Congrats hun. Perhaps the worry stems from a fear of 3? 2 previous angels, 2 live births, where does the 3 go or maybe cos it went 2+2and you're worried about it going 2 again? That's what I do with things lol. I just expect every 2nd to m/c now but worry that I might not be that *lucky* and so have a difficult time relaxing with my others.

    Melster- How horrid to have the bh I hope they be gentle to you.

    Kbudgie- So happy for you for your scan going well

    AFM- I have to keep an eye on my weight too I lost 12kgs and have put 5 back on and will be too fat if I gain more than 10 in the next 10 weeks before bub comes (will be 10 weeks if I have anything to do with it ;-) )
    Didn't get to see my OB,just the m/wand I don't feel as comfortable with her so was nervous and forgot to ask some things. Specialist appt was frustrating to say the least. Wouldn't listen to a word I said and wants me to have a c-sec -_- NOT HAPPENING! He had no interest at all in a management plan for IU, leaky waters or liver issues, just "oh well, that happens in pregnancy" seeing OB again Tuesday to discuss a management plan with him instead of with the specialist

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    Ticktoc- I post whatever, positive or negative. I figure I need to get it out somewhere that isn't just for me and here is safe. Plus it kinda doubles as a journal lol. After pregnancy and I have recovered, I copy and paste my AFM parts of my posts into a word doc on my laptop. I done the same with my PND posts
    LOVE this idea - I was feeling as if I was using BB as a online journal & realised maybe I'm coming across as a worry wort all the time. Which I'm not usually, it's just that I have no control over this fear that sets up camp & throws a party every time I get run down & unable to think rationally.

    Did you get your results milly?

    Mel I don't remember having Braxton hicks with my DD but my SIL has about 3 weeks to go & I know she's not getting a lot of sleep because of them.

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    I've been trying to ignore it all day but the pain is really getting to me. It's making me vomit worse than normal and keeps making me see spots. Doesn't seem to be doing anything downstairs and speaking of downstairs, the baby is so far down that I can't walk without crushing her head :/

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    damprye, wish there was a magic way of making the pain & discomfort go away xxx

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    I'm considering cancelling work today because I really don't think I can handle it. She is still down and my tummy is so sore and I feel so sick. Will go for a shower and see how I feel after that. I don't want to let them know it's because of the baby though in case they withhold work (contracted) in the future few months where I still may be able to work. If I do have to cancel, it will be the first time since my gallbladder operation (before pregnancy)

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    How did your day pan out damprye?

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    How is everyone going? I have had a sore stomach the last couple days. Cleaned out the kids bedroom and toys and its completely buggard me... Got the glucose test in the morning and obs appoint Thursday. I'm real Kranky at the moment. Had enough of everything...

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    Good luck with your glucose test Mel, am not looking forward to having mine. Hope the krankeys are leaving you alone.

    My scan went well, baby wouldn't move into position so we were there for a while. HB was 137 so I'm guessing its a boy but time will tell. Have publicly announced it on FB & have told my grandparents. Still doesn't feel real but the screen showed me a healthy wriggly bub so I guess it's true

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    Congratulations tick Tok...... Yayyyyyy I'm so happy for you. I hope you're feeling slightly releaved.....it's always a bit of a shock at the start...

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    I ended up sucking it up and going to work. Noone else was able to cover me and I could not disappoint the birthday boy. Everyone was so impressed with my work as well and I awesome feedback message later that night

    Hope your test comes back good Melster

    Woohoo for being able to announce after a wriggly bub on screen.

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    You're a stronger woman than me damprye, I'm only 13weeks (tomorrow) & feel like taking time off work- my belly feels uncomfortable & I'm not sleeping properly so I'm short tempered & cranky lol. My boobs are also feeling hot & itchy which is adding to my snarkyness

    It was lovely going to bed last night with my hands on my belly knowing there IS a healthy baby in there. At this rate I'm going to end up sleeping naked in the bath - I'm getting so hot, even with DP not home I'm down to undies & singlet or t-shirt & my top always ends up tucked under my boobs so my belly & back are bare. Summer is going to be very interesting.

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