thread: Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss August 2009

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  1. #1
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    Jun 2009
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    hope everyone is having a great day

    Hi Guys

    I just wanted to jump in and hope everyone is having a great day!!!! I am feeling really positive now and have decided to not let previous bad experiences effect my joy of this pregnancy... I am taking each day as it comes and the blessing that each day is with it..




    cheers

    Cara

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    Jul 2009
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    Hi everyone - thanks for being so welcoming

    Smallfryplus - My Dr has given me a referral for a dating scan but has asked me to wait until the second week of October to have the scan. I have been charting though and know my dates, do I just take the first day of heavy bleeding from mc as CD1 as that's what I have done. If that's right, I am 5W1D today.

    Mrs Hendo - you have a great attitude I hope your BT went well today, I am going back again in the morning too. I used to be so SCARED of needles and in the past few months I have just gotten used to them. How far along are you?

    TinaR - over 100,000 at the 8 week mark? Wooowweeeee, that's an amazing number! I can only aspire to that figure. Congrats!

    Megsmum - thanks for writing that about your cramping in your successful pregnancies. I too have been experiencing some cramps and sharp pains. On Monday before I knew my BT results I got a stabbing pain and actually yelled from the shock of it. I felt for sure it meant a bad outcome but luckily, I am in this thread now

    AFM - I have had a pretty quiet day at work. I can't believe how calm I am after getting the increasing HCG news yesterday. For a week I have been waking up and POAS and analysing everything about it, was it darker, how long did the line take etc etc. This morning I even forgot to take my temperature and didn't POAS at all!! Plus I have got this general happy feeling all over and I want to shout my news from the rooftops, whereas last time I wanted to keep it a secret until we got further along. Yep, I'm a strange one

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    Jun 2009
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    Hi there starangel,

    I can totally relate. Even though I am at a high risk of another miscarriage I just can't keep it a secret. I have noticed amongst my friends, those who have never lost a pregnancy always wait 3 months yet those who have shout it from rooftops!!!

    In my situation I have really craved support this time. I need to believe it will stick and that it will be a successful pregnancy. I have had to let work know as my job is quite stressful and I need time off for lots of dr's visits and blood tests.

    I am currently 4 weeks and 2 days.... although I already feel about 10 months... lol or should i say treating myself like I am.. hahaha

    Good luck at the dr's tomorrow I hope your hg levels have increased tooo!!! How far along are you?



    Cara

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    Hi all, will BBL to a proper hello

    Mrs Hendo - did you get your BT results? How did you get on? I had another BT this morning so hopefully should get the results in the next few hours. STILL bleeding unfortunately, just when I think it stops, it starts again. I am 5W2D I think??

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    Jun 2009
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    good morning everyone

    starangel - I haven't had got my results yet. my doctor won't ever give results over the phone good or bad so i have to wait till my appointment tomorrow...longest 2 day wait ever... i still have really strong symptoms so I think the force is strong with this one.

    Is your bleeding light? Let us know how the results go... everything here is crossed for you

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    Jul 2009
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    Thanks for the well wishes, the Dr rang and my HCG is over 2,300! Can't believe that this time last week it was only 70. The bleeding I am experiencing is annoying really. It is light but I am calling it spotting because that makes me feel better. Basically I am wearing a liner and once a day I get some staining but other than that it is just brown sludge or red mucousy blood when I wipe. I did have some clots but that was last week and haven't seen anything like that since then. I keep thinking the bleeding has eased but then I go to the toilet and there it is again. It's persistant that's for sure. My last pregnancy didn't have any bleeding at all until I started to mc (the very very light brown spotting was my first sign) so it is still scary to me but with my numbers increasing, I am feeling more positive.

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    Jun 2009
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    Starangel thats awesome news!! 2,300 is brilliant. I have gone home early from work. I was sick all day vomiting i just left and went to the doctor.. but I now have my results, so on the 28th by hcg was 46 then on 30th it was 186 so thats gotta be a good sign...

    I just feel sooo rotten and want to sleep all the time. But sooo excited at the same time that i just feel this is gonna be it this time...

    I can imagine the bleeding is worrying but as you have probably read on here it can be really normal. I have had a bit of slight cramping and that makes me worry but it hasn't gotten any worse.

    great news.... so when are you due then?