thread: Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss June 2010

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  1. #1
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    Aug 2009
    Murray River Victoria
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    Hey Alice!!! Stalk away girlfriend!!! Miss you too honey, so much X
    Hope you can be joining us all very soon X Me on the quiet side, lurking a lot, will be more chatty once I get to my ultrasound next Tuesday. Will feel more real.
    Thanks for dropping in on us, love to you XXXXX

  2. #2
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    Aug 2009
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    Alice - I am with Murray - stalk away. Miss you too.... you always have something thoughtful to say....

    Murray - it is just the best babe, getting that feeling that makes it all seem "real". It's funny, when I look back at how much I cherish that first ultrasound pic and carry it with me everywhere and would gaze at it a lot.... it's not much really- just a blob, but its a blob that represents hopes, dreams and love, and its a blob that will grow soon to look a little more like a baby than a blob. And, it's a blob that is so important. I still look at the picture of my little blob and remember how proud and excited I was when first. I saw it. I know you're anxious.... and only getting through your ultrasound will help with that.

    Is Mr Cod going? I remember that for one of my scans DH and I didn't communicate properly about the nature of the appointment and DH missed it. He was so devastated afterwards. So from then on I was very clear in explaining the purpose of every appointment. But he's a lot more clued up after then, so there's no chance, and he also makes every appointment, except those last minute reassurance appointments that I get during the middle of the day.

    Have a good weekend.... and bring on Tuesday....

    Anyway, I am off now to pat the cat!

  3. #3
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    Apr 2010
    selkirk, ny
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    My hands shake as i type this i still feel like this is all a dream. I had a missed misscarriage april 2nd had a d and c i was 5 and half weeks pregnate. I felt like my world was over i could not really funtion for such a long time. So i found out may 31 that i was prenate again. I don't have the happiness that i did when i was pregnate the other time. I worry at every lil thing if i dont feel like i had the same pregnancy sytoms i had the day before. And i have really told no one just people who need to know. I just got back my fourth beta levels and they came back normal did not tell me the levels but normal. So right now i am num. I feel like i am a horrible person.

  4. #4
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    Jun 2009
    Camperdown
    421

    Angelfish hunny welcome to our thread and congratulations on the pg. Done feel like you are a horrible person for having those feelings, they are completely normal after what you have been through. Try and take it easy on yourself and just know that it does get a little easier as time goes on but we will never completely be carefree about it.
    Looking forward to getting to know you and share this journey

  5. #5
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    Aug 2006
    Terrace BC, Canada
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    OMG I stop posting in this thread for awhile and look what I miss! Huge congratulations to Murraycod, SammyP and Kitfaerie! I am so incredibly happy to see you guys in here. Sending tons of sticky vibes to all of you. hooray.

    there were so many posts to read i kind of just skimmed so congrats and welcome to everyone else who has recently joined. I don't post a whole lot as i have suffered bad MS my entire pregnancy. last week i got food poisoning and this week the stomach flu so it's been quite the ride. I also find sitting athte computer to be very uncomfortable as I havd SPD and horrible rib pain. Thankfully I only have 6 weeks or so left before baby is here and I have my boy back again. Getting pretty excited!

  6. #6

    Aug 2009
    283

    Thank you Ladies for your posts... DH and I have decided that if my back pain doesn't get any better with physio and massages by the 19th July, I'll drop down to 4 days, then on the 16th of Aug drop down to 3... then... LMAO.... my last day will be 9th of Sept..... YAY... really doesn't seem that far away to me... scray!

    angelfish - you are definately NOT a horrible person.. what you described is exactly the same way I felt when we found out we were pregnant again. I had a MC late Aug and was pregnant again early Jan.. I didn't want to get excited and I was always thinking in the back of my mind;what does this little pain mean, is it bad, does it feel the same as before... We didn't tell family until 12wks and still we were hesitant.. It get's easier with time, but for me I won't be able to feel completely excited until I hold my daughter in my arms.. BUT for you my love NEVER EVER feel like you are a horrible person, you just need to give yourself time to get excited give your time to still grieve over your loss. Excitement will come anglefish, love will come, hope will come...

    ric Congrats!! Can't wait to see the ticker

    SammyP with this pregnancy I had regular HCG tests coz i didn't want an internal u/s.... the levels vary so much within the 'normal' range... it did my head in until i had my u/s at 9wks.....Try and wait it out til your u/s, and enjoy seeing your bub on the screen!

    Hello to all the other ladies out there....

    AFM: I'm going to see my Sister and get another wonderful massage, just hope it lasts a little longer this time, last time I was sore again after 4days :-( ... But I do have my babyshower to lookforward to YAY!!! 17th July sooo looking forward to it.. hopefully our patio will be finished by then, DH has decided that the kitchen and patio will be renovated and completed before that date... mmm we'll see about that...

  7. #7
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    Aug 2009
    Murray River Victoria
    649

    OMG TwinSis you are 34weeks?!?!?! It feels like only a month ago you got your BFP I can't beleive it!!!!
    So nice to see you sweetheart.
    Im a little anxious, apart for my sore nipples, I don't 'feel' pg at all. I know I'm only early, but I just want to wake up and vomit or something!!!!!!

    Angelfish, I feel the same way, to scared to beleive it yet, but worked so darn hard to get here!!!! Congrats on your pregnancy darling, sending you healthy sticky vibes X

    Dory, thanks babe, it's so nice to have all of you understand and feel the same way. You are all a great bunch of girls XXXXX DH is as excited to get to the ultrasound day too, only 10 more sleeps!!!!! (that's if I sleep!!) Am still a touch crampy, which just makes me worry. But in a weird way, i'm getting used to it now, although I would not miss them if they dissapeared already!!!!!
    I have a photo of the embryo that was transfered, but I can't bring myself to look at it!!!!
    The 1st transfer I had, I carried the photo everywhere, even had it as a screensaver on my mobile phone. Was devastated when it didn't take.
    My current photo of Blastie had been hiden in a drawer the entire time, I think I have looked at it twice! SO sad!