Iona honey, sending you huge huggs.
My cramping and back pain is getting so much worse, I am terrified. I promise I am resting and totally relaxed, I'm jut not at all confident.
Sorry I'm a downer in here ladies, I'm not my usual self at all X
Murray and Iona I feel for you so much, I have been there twice and it just sucks. BUt it could be nothing, not that that makes you feel any better. Time is the only thing that can help, I generally hate time, it so slow.....
AFM well I am a bit down too. All is well with bubs, so please bear with me, I know I probably seem like I am whinging but honestly I have to do it somewhere.
In my home I am usually so bubbly energetic and to be frank full of sexual energy. Since conception basically my poor little libido has really left the building. I am sooo tired, last night went to bed at 7.30pm much to DH dismay. He made a comment and said that he knew it would all be about the Baby...it made me feel like sh*t. I dont want to have to pretend I feel good and want to BD if I dont...I am certain it will all come back to me in 2nd trimester I couldnt get enough last time...Its just so sad that this joyful time is surrounded with such disapointment about my "overnight sensation" DH words on my changes. I cant help whats happening to my body..
milly - sometimes they don't realise that bub can suck the life out of us!! I know DP thought the same way your hubby does when I was pregnant with DS. They just don't understand!!!
murray - sending you heaps of hugs and sticky vibes. I'm hoping the next few days go quickly so you can see bub at your u/s
Well girls, I;m pretty sure my time in this thread has come to an end, the bleeding has been continuous since about 8pm last night and with my levels that low I don't have much faith. I want to thank all you wonderful girls for all the support you have given me in the last week. Mwah
I am sorry Iona Big big cuddles as you grieve your little one.
Murray I just want to affirm to you that cramping such as you are describing is not at all unusual. Very very common - I had it with every pregnancy. Like you I expected to get my period at any moment. But I didn't! Please try and keep that positive in mind. I truly truly get how hard this is. I lost 3 little angels and 3 babies in my second trimester so I am so with you that the road is much harder after that BFP than before. You will get through this. One step at a time. Set yourself some goals. Tuesday is your next one. Then after then there is another. This for me was the only way I could get through. Sending you love.
MurrayCod - I had cramps like that too, and was convinced it was the end. I know it is hard to relax, but do try and just take one day at a time. sending sticky vibes
Milly - I have had "zero" libido. Try not to be down on yourself, it's really hard to be up for it if you are tired, anxious or feeling sick!
Iona - I am so sorry to see you go from this thread. I am sorry to hear your angel is gone. Take care of yourself.
MurrayCod - Hang in there! You only have a few more days till your scan and when you see that heartbeat I really feel your cramps will ease up as I am sure stress is playing a part in this.
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Big big cuddles as you grieve your little one.
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