HPL: wow, that would be scary. Glad your baby decided to cosy up a little longer.
Sammy: you've got a few months to do the 'healthy pregnancy' thing. Right now you are entitled to lay about and moan!
Kitfaerie: lovely news about Tiger's scan. I'm very happy for you. Enjoy every minute.
Hoping and Angelfish: good news on your scans. So far so good! And babies are often disrespectful of exact timelines!
Tegam: fantastic news. Such a relief to see that baby wave!
AFM: Hoping, Iona, Kit, HPL, Tegam, Sammy, Dory: Thank you to all of you (and anyone i accidentally missed) who responded to my post. Unfortunately the news is not good. My bleeding stopped on Sunday and i went to the dr Monday. The baby was still there but dr couldn't find the heartbeat any more. Confirmed with a second scan today. Very upset that i have the worst of both worlds: lots of bleeding, no hb but no complete miscarriage either. I don't want a D & C if i can avoid it- i had three last year. I'm going to try medication management first. I'm praying hard that this will be over quickly: last time i had complications and couldn't complete the m/c for 3mths (even with 3 d & c's).
Thanks for all your support. I'm going to take a step back from BB- not log in as often- while i recover but will keep an eye on you all from time to time and then decide if i feel up to a TTC thread again. Feeling very upset about the prospect of another birthday with no baby.
Possum i am so sorry to hear about your tiny little angel. Please be kind to yourself chick
I hope that everything can happens sooner for you and ther eis no complications
Hugs hun
Possum - I hope the m/c resolves quickly and your heart and soul heals soon enough too. Thinking of you and wishing you a speedy recovery and all the best. Thankyou for your kind words and encouragement. Take care.
Mo4 - thinking of you this week too - no doubt your anxiety levels are quite high.....
Kit - grrr you buxom woman you! Loving the "cup" size now.
possum I am so sorry to hear i am sending you long distance hugs.
Dory He sets no boundies with his children what so ever. And i really cant do anything becouse if i try to correct them on anything they go back to there mother and the she will call him or take him to court to say that i am being mean by putting them in time out. He was just sick and i did not take care of him what so ever. I am putting my lil peanut frist most of all ifi am tired i rest if i am feeling nausaus i rest the house work can wait until it passes. I have come to far to lose this one.
To everyone else that i missed Yes i am very happy and starting to relax i know that the u/s tech told me it matches with the dates that it should be so i think my dr was off the page the other day. I am not going to worry until there is a time to worry. As for his children being here if they get to much then i will call him and disapear for a day i am not going to put my baby at risk for his children what so ever. I know that must sound bad but this baby comes frist just as if those were my children. But thank you everyone the past couple of weeks i have been stressing and you all have been such a postive infulence to me. I serched in the us for a message board could not found one but i found this one more welcoming.
i dont blame you angelfish, he should show more compassion as its his bubba too, and kids needs rules and its unfair for you for not being able to set any. i am glad little bubba is doing well, my house work is starting to go a tad behind aswell, but my two kids have been good little boys so their easier to handle, i wish you all the best and hoping your pregnancy journey will be more ejoyable over the next few months xxx
oh possum: such tragic news. im so sorry that you are going to have a birthday with empty arms and a heavy heart. i had to have two d&c with my 1st m/c, it too was drawn out for far too long and yes that takes its toll! my heart hurts for you and your dh! fly free little one. i am blown away by your generosity to say such lovely personals when you have every right to be selfish in your grief.
Ashie - I just love the pic in your signature - the bed with two adults as bookends and 2 little ones in the middle. LOL - for us at the moment, it's 2 adult bookends and 3 little cats (who between them don't weigh 15 kgs) taking up MOST of the bed. But its only a winter thing, when they don't want us for our body warmth they stay away. Selfish little tykes.
Anyway, I am just about to go make a cinnamon tea cake. Dtiched the idea of scones or lammingtons, want something much easier. I am so glad it's not 14 degrees celcius today!
Angel - I searched around a lot too before I came to BB, and chose it for much the same reasons you said. It just had such a nice and supportive feel to it. You can let the crazy lady out in here any time, that's what it's for.
oh dory i have 2 cats and their so sooky! my kitten who's 5 months titty's me! she sucks on my clothing for some reason! never met a cat who did that. my other one is a huge british short hair with part of her tail missing shes the mob boss around our area lmao! my home is so cold at night and cheap home builders didnt include gas points so only have one electric heater for our bedroom and our boys are in with us! just so they are toasty lol, but so far now bad cold yet!
afm- i had a scare yesterday had some bad pains, but only twinges today which is good, getting bloods taken friday so fingers crossed for some even better numbers will be 6 days since my last blood test last time they were at 760 so will be nice to see numbers at about 3000 lol. getting excited about next friday too i cant wait to see this little one and its heart beat flickering away, and i know it will ease my nerves too, but its still over a week away and i am eager lol!
Its an all about me post ladies, apologies in advance.
We had a scan today for what was meant to be almost 9 weeks. Bubs had no heartbeat, no bloodflow and no movement. I basically have to wait for the miscarriage to begin or have D&C MOnday.
For all you lovelies UTD this will not happen to you, all will be perfect with your bubbys coming at the right time and beautiful in every way
xxxxx
Oh Millyd - I am so so sad for you and your family. Bless your angel. Give yourself time to grieve my love and go gently. You are well and truly in my thoughts.
oh milly i am so sorry for you loss. give yourself all the time you need to try and recover emotional and phiscally. you and your family are in my thoughts xxx
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