thread: Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss November 2009

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  1. #1
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    Jan 2010
    South Australia
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    Dory - Yah 6 weeks!!! I know it is hard to focus on the positives when you have been disappointed before but worrying is not doing you or the bean any good (if only I could listen to my own advice!) I don't know much about eptopic pregnancies but surely they are not that common - hopefully you will see a heartbeat at the scan and you can start to get a little more excited!

    Greenslw - any news - I think we are all dying to know! Thanks heaps for your comments re dreams and processing I think they really helped as I had not thought of it that way.

    Cherished1 - 8 weeks is a great milestone to reach - everyday is one day closer to the magic 12week mark - I can't wait to hear about your 9 week scan.

    HPL - welcome! It must be great to have a positive partner, my DH is ALWAYS very cautious with his optimisim and this time around I don't think he will believe it until he sees the kid!

    Milly - I read some stats on the Miscarriage Assoc site and it said - If the scan picks up a heartbeat and the baby appears to be the right size according to your dates, this can be very reassuring. Research has shown that if you see a heartbeat at 6 weeks of pregnancy, the chances of the pregnancy continuing are 78%. A heartbeat at 8 weeks increases the chance of a continuing pregnancy to 98% and at 10 weeks to 99.4%. So things could still go wrong, but as long as there is a heartbeat, the risk of miscarriage decreases as the weeks go by. I know this may be cold comfort after what has happend to you but I am liking those odds!!!

    I had my first craving on Aust Day - I woke up and had brekky at about 7am and by 9am I HAD to have a meat pie which I inhaled (I am usually a slow eater) I then went back to bed at about 10am and slept for a couple of hours! I am taking this as a good sign as I have never had a craving before (hopefully it means I have a sticky bean!)
    Thank god the m/c dreams are slowing up. Also I am sure my belly has already popped out - I know it is crazy early but I can't help but think it could be connected with such a recent pregnancy (maybe my uterus hadn't quite stretched back yet???)

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    May 2004
    Shepparton
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    Look at my new Av!! I decided that I need to take a step to getting myself into more pregnancy mode... because I am HAVING A BABY!!

    I am assuming Green has had her little bundle!!

  3. #3
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    May 2009
    Boondocks Qld
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    *taps foot impatiently* come on Greenslw...we are waiting for your announcement!

    Hi to everyone. just popping in quickly to say hi and hope everyone is doing great - its fantastic to see so many new mummies joining the thread.

    Dory! you made it
    Elise - nearly 12 weeks...that has seemed to go so fast

    AFM: while yes I have a belly and can feel movement it is still not very real yet. I don't know that it will be real till the pain hits lol