Cheezel...im sorry to hear you're sister isnt well, yeah i know what you mean about the concentrating thing.....i feel almost dazed out sometimes
Mr T-hopes....thanks for the update. Let Mrs T-hopes know were thinking of her and pray that bubs stays in there a bit longer. Hope she is not in too much pain. Give her a cuddle
Wannabemum...me and hubby are 7 years and 3 married..does that make me old too LOL........yeah i ended up using DD bon, and mum gave me this ulcer stuff that was like a paste you put on..think it is nearly cleared up now thank god.................no good about you're back
I am one to say what i feel, when i feel it. Im not a bottler, i like to get everything out...and hubby has made that very hard for me lately which is why i am having so many issues..i want to be heard and listened to and my views validated even if he doesnt agree....i want to resolve the problems and move on..............i tend to say things straight away and want to get it off my chest and confront it and then move on. hubby says i am too forward and quiet harsh. Then he is the complete opposite, he doesnt like to deal with things, he prefers to ignore them until they fester and he reaches boiling point and then everyone cops it. Its like he cant handle too much information at once..cant handle any cristisim thats thrown at him and he gets too flustered. So he turns his back and walks away so ic ant finish, and because i am one to want to talk about it and deal with it...it all blows up..because i think its very disrespectful and rude not to listen to what someone is saying...even if you dont like it. He will ignore my texts, calls, letters if it has to do with issues...and then i have no idea how he really feels......how can denial work and make you happy...you can't just walk around pretending everything is ok and hope it blows over..........thats why the circle continues with him......anyways thats my spat....he hasnt gone still he is just avoiding me at all costs...
Bec.......welcome again and congratulations....how are you feeling about this pregnancy??????? how have you been going?
Cheshire...hello...sorry to hear about you're cold..hope you get better soon
Dory....hey how are you and bubs doing? i know i am nearly 32 weeks...so 8 weeks to go..it doesnt seem real..although when bubs moves now it feels like an alien in there LOL...i dont know how i did it, i was quiet stressed the other day and im wondering if i did it myself or in my sleep...when i get stressed i curl my toes..im wondering if i was grinding or something instead
Luna..how are you going?
ATM....last day at work today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i cannot wait to have a rest...its amazing how tiring working 4 days again can be when pregnant...i just want a sleep in and a cuddle with my DD............im a bit emotional at the moment and think i need a rest from everything and a good sleep
we're all young Just that we met the right person young
Melster, I think your DH and my DH have some similarities - thank goodness my DH has started to learn to talk! I hope yours will come around and listen to you, at least to enjoy the birth of his baby!
I'm 95% sure I felt baby move today! I was lying on my tummy on the floor with my head and shoulders up (playing with DS) and felt some definite movement! I think stretching out bubby helped So exciting! I know it's early, but I'm still pretty sure!
Thanks for the welcome back ladies!
Dory: It's funny DH thought Pip was a boy too, but I was sure it was a girl...We haven't told Xav yet but he's getting the vibe I guess. He said to me this morning "Mum do we have to wait 80 YEARS untill there's a baby in your tummy?!" ahh, the impatience of 4 year old. If early scan are ok we'll take him to the 12 week scan.
Luna: I'm sorry you suffered an ectopic too. I am still nervous, especially since it's only been 4 months since I lost Pip and 3 months since the missed m/c was removed via D&C. I'm worried all the surgery, plus the c/s scar might be an issue...I hope not! Congrats on being 9 weeks along!
WBM: I've had bloods done last week (hcg 27 & 147 72hours apart) and I am scheduled for a scan next Wednesday with my FS. I saw my GP today and he referred me to my OB and gave me a form to go and get a scan today if I wanted one. I figure they wont be able to see anything yet, so I'll wait till next week if I don't have any severe pain. Congrats on your pg too!
Melster: Congrats on your last day of work, woohoo! I hope you get what you need on the home front and find some peace. AS for how I'm feeling re this pg, I'm anxious, but I am very much trying to view it was what will be, will be. I'm in a good place psychologically, and DH and I are just trying to stay calm (easier said than done!).
Hi to everyone else! I hope everyone is enjoying peaceful, happy pregnancies!
AFM: m/s kicked it up a little today and I actually thought I might be sick! I decided to stay home from work since I was there untill 8.30 last night anyway, and I was sore and my back hurt and I felt rotten! I'm a little worried about how much my belly is already feeling bigger, wondering about double trouble again! We'll see next week I guess. I went and bough a new revised copy of 'Up the Duff' which I've read from cover to cover, but I wanted to updated one. So I'm going to pick DS up from Kinder and curl up and read that whilst he has a nap this afternoon!
hey bec i had a ectopic too and fell with molly only weeks after all the surgery and she is .....perfect.....! congrats on your pregnancy, so glad you didnt have to wait 80yrs!
wannabemum...he will talk but only if i talk the way he wants me too. Its too frustrating if i cant be myself and the smallest upset sets him off...congrats on the movement..i love the babies first movements!!!! now they just hurt lol
Bec....sorry i meant last day of the WEEK.....lol lol......do you have twins in the family?
bec - welcome to the group. ill say for the millionth time im so excited for you
mel - bah so jealous. i wish i was finishing work today. im sorry about you and your dh too.. hopefully you can work things out with him? my dh is a bad communicator too if we fight.. guess its a man thing
cheezel - im not sure if shes ever seen a baby this far along.. i know she last seen bubs around 8 weeks but im not sure if she ever went with my sister when she was pregnant or if she had one with me??
10 weeks already? it seems like yesterday when you came in here, im glad things are going well..
thanks for the update mr thopes.. im glad she is doing well ..
sorry no more persies, im a bit out of it today.. and in a mood.. and stressed !!
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