CS.....i hated them last time..and havent had to deal with them in a while..and now its just stirred me up again!!!!

Ferrals..i know exactly what you're saying its not harsh. Its not just for the kids, but i am running out of reasons to stay and fight. Thats why i want time and space and to not just rush back due to our circumstances. I have messaged him and asked him to nicely to leave, as its easier for him and i dont want DD being out of sorts from staying at mums and i need some time alone. I'll see what his response is. He does need to put us first....i am in no mood to speak to him at the moment..i just need time to think.