CS.....i hated them last time..and havent had to deal with them in a while..and now its just stirred me up again!!!!
Ferrals..i know exactly what you're saying its not harsh. Its not just for the kids, but i am running out of reasons to stay and fight. Thats why i want time and space and to not just rush back due to our circumstances. I have messaged him and asked him to nicely to leave, as its easier for him and i dont want DD being out of sorts from staying at mums and i need some time alone. I'll see what his response is. He does need to put us first....i am in no mood to speak to him at the moment..i just need time to think.
Melstar thats what happened to me with my ex not putting his tax in (he did 8years ago and I got the whole $200 of it) he then didn't put it in for years or since then to ensure I didn't get it so eventually when he was made to (about 6years of not doing it I get a huge amount which now means I get nothing for family tax benefit which I elect to get annually and was counting on it to stay at home longer and the amount I got from ex is only about the same FTB would have been anyway) I can't believe there allowed to do that. Fair enough a proportion but the hole amount. They said if I was lucky I might get $50 a fortnight but definately not until this bub is born and probably not until the end of financial year. Anyway enough about sucky CS I hope you work out something with your hubby and you that is in the best interested of you and your babies. What a load of stress you just dont need.
Melster - hugs sweetie - you are doing the right thing to take some time to gather yourself and your thoughts.
Ferrals - yay 36 days... that will fly....hopefully not too many bleeds cause even though you're expecting them it will be be scary.
Mildez - glad you got some movements.... are you still going up to the hossy anyway?
Sunshine - GO OBIE!!!!! He moved his head - that is just sooooo awesome. He's such a strong little man. I can't imagine what it's like to see him all hooked up for his EEG - I think you're doing the right thing by avoiding something that's upsetting. There's too much going on for you now, it's so easy to be overwhelmed, so I am proud of you for protecting yourselves. Glad DH got a cuddle. SO SO glad the last EEG was normal. FX for this one.... I bet his little hands and fingers are impossibly small and oh so cute!
I know this is a little random, but I was 9 weeks premature in the early 1970's and I am robust and healthy without long term health consequences. If I can do it Obie certainly can. So keep the faith in your little man.
Forshelby - did I scare you off or do you have the A/C so cold that your computer stopped working?
Alish - thinking of you on Friday... just take a deep breathe every so often and just believe.
Cherished whoops I mean Cheshire - oh sweetie - hugs - like Ferrals said, hope it's bubs being snuggley... good luck with your ultra sound... I know it's a very scary and lonely time right now...... just hoping you get through to some good news tomorrow.
Ferrals - Hmm, did I see you sneak a name for little miss in there? If you haven't posted her name before, what a beautiful name you have choosen... Ella..... if you have posted and I missed it, sorry. I hoe you feel better after your cry last night. It just helps to get all those feelings out. I am sorry you're doing it so tough financially and stress wise right now.
TegamM - thinking of you my blossom.
Sunshine - I was thinking about little Obed today and realised I was smiling..... hope you are all getting along as best as can be expected.
Last edited by dory; February 9th, 2011 at 09:37 AM.
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Cheshire..I will hope and pray for you...I had bleeding and spotting early in my pregnancy...twice actually..so i will pray everything is ok..
Ferrals...its completely understandable you feel the way you do. Finances can control our lives and our feelings and can make us feel in a hole. You have had alot on you're plate and to deal with, its no wonder you feel the way you do. Its so hard until you start feeling like you're getting to the end of the tunnel...all you can do is try you're best to survive and hope and pray things will eventually work out ok..
Can you put $5.00 away a week for a capsule? or can you look in the trader, garage sale or one of those second hand baby stores? How can legal aid do that? Oh i wish i could help because i can really sympathise with the way you're feeling and i defiantly know how you're feeling at the moment and then having a baby to worry about as well....Unforunately there are things we just cant control (i need to take my own advise) and we just need to keep plodding along.....i am sending you a massive hug and a cuddle. Go have a big cry and let it all out....then try and tackle all these things the best way you can...to releave at least some of the stress....
Just been a combination of busy and lazy to get on and post. I promise I am seriously considering your offer, 
its only a midwife appt, my next one isnt until 21st march, im sooo upset 
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