Hmmm, twin mummy may have been before my time here. I can't remember reading of anyone having twins.
I didn't think I'd get into the CMP for a homebirth again as I had a PPH after my last birth and also after the last m/c I lost alot of blood. But we have already started an active management plan so fingers crossed all goes well!
mildez.....oh i defiantly know how ur feeling at the moment. The hormones defiantly play a role in making the problem worse....and the lazy part...i defiantly can sympathise...
Ferrals..thats great to hear about the house..
Cheshire....stay positive it sounds great
reet...im glads its not ur water...yeah i know i always try to protect him when maybe i shouldnt
forshelby...not long now...how u feeling
hey stoked everyone else....
Atm...spoked to hubby last night to try sort thro a few things...im still not at home tho. Think its going to take time...with the cs phone call monday its really not helping matters either not until we know what were in for and how much. They keep ringing him to tell him to answer monday. He said something about why is he in arrears and not paying 300 a week and being behind.....hubbys like um no i didnt do a tax return because im on disabilty idiot.........he is like ummmmmmm ill get back to u.......they dont even have the right info..........im going to be real nervous until we can sort this out and know whats going on...guess there is not much we can do and ill need to try and accept it and not let it ruin our lives...unfair or fair............so the waiting still continues and my guts churning............plus my dad my have dementia which is also really stressing us.......when it rains it poors.........
Ferrals - oh bugger - you beat me to it... I was going to say Hope... she's due not too far away... glad she's going ok. I am glad that there is some lightening of the load financially.
Reet - I had that weird ass** leaking too - once it was serious and all the other times, who knows what was going on? But I got checked out at the obs for it. For me it used to happen after I showered so I thought maybe I was just douching too enthusiatically....LOL.... DH and I were in a drought so it was DTD. But still go and get it checked - the ob/hossy might check your cervix to assess whether there are any changes and do a swab to see if it's amniotic fluid. The swab is just getting some of the fluid, not a huge internal exam ( aka ordeal).
Mildez - Sorry you're doing it tough with DH just now.... I hope it's just a pregnancy thing. Maybe you should have an indepth discussion about whether he has depression - the lack of interest in his usual activities ( work, family, chores) is just ringing alarm bells with me.
T Hopes - I am so sorry you got such sad news about your MIL. And so young. Hoping she is able to have some dignity in this very hard journey....
Cherished - phew - that's awesome! What a relief huh?
Forshelby - oh sweetie - Tegam said it, what's the chances of us both being psycho's? Honestly ... I don't tink I am a psycho. And about the $ - not to worry - my shout. You have enough to worry about AND I don't want money to be an excuse. I am the queen of anomimity.... usually, but remember my name is Dory, so I am unlikely to actually remember any of the embrassing or peronsal stuff you've written. I am pretty forgetful and vague. I am not usually this confident or pushy either... not sure what's going on. I really liked what you said too about partners making choices and making their priorities right... but can't remember who you said it to? Anyway, it was tops advice.
India's Mum - good to see you popping in.
Sunshine - - Just wanted to say hello and that I am thinking of you and DH and little Obie. I even put your name in colour so it's easier for you... I know you don't have much time and that this thread moves really fast.
AFM - well a fizzer of a day here. I WAS going to redeem a day spa voucher I was given for chrissy. My aunt took the day off work to sit Hannah. Well 10 mins after I left Hannah started to cry and didn't stop. My aunt called me just as I got into town ( 30 mins trip in) and I came straight home ( only 10 mins .... wee bit of a zoomer on the way home and really good traffic). When I got home Hannah was crying and so were my aunt and I. After I calmed Hannah down, she had a breast feed snuggle and nap, and then we 3 girls went out to lunch. I feel bad that Hannah was just inconsolable. Guess we just need to get Hannah even more used to my aunt and start with smaller increments of time. It was hard enough just getting me to go out in the first place, and part of me says -"see I was right". But I am going to try again..... as hard as it all was, there is one thing that just comes home to me and it just melts my heart.... my baby needs me..... I never thought I would get to say that.
Yes Dory your little bubba Hannah needs you. Sounds like she was ensuring you knew it lol such a clever girl. She is just adorable in your picture. Yes your right. I'm sure my DH is depressed and I'm sure its over money which I obviously haven't been helping demanding he supports us financially. Obviously its something he isn't coping with which sh-its me when we have been together 7yrs, had a bub together and he has never contributed even 50% financially ever. It ****es me of but perhaps I should back of a little and except he is like that. He doesn't sponge of me at all just seems to have trouble supporting anyone else but himself. I'm sure thats probably why he isn't doing many hours at work as he just has no motivation anymore even his ambition is going. Hopefully its just a phase as I don't know how long I can deal with this myself.
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