Milly-i don't want to worry you any more than us poor pregnant women already are but it only gets worse once bub is here being a parent you worry something will go wrong with the pregnancy then worry about the birth then you will worry about the baby being normal then when you bring bub home you worry about SIDS then when you get past that you worry about whooping cough and all the childhood illnesses then they start school and you worry about their learning if they are intelligent or not and then it's stranger danger once you get through that it is high school and the worry of bullying and sex and drugs and now my 17 year old has his L's i worry about car accident's so you may awell give up now because there is nothing anyone can say or do to really put your mind at rest WELCOME TO PARENTHOOD.