Minnie~ Darling I am so sorry, I hope it all comes up trumps for you darl thinking of you and sending you some massive hugs. Sending you lots of sticky vibes darl with all my power for this little bub to stick. Hang in there darl.
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Minnie~ Darling I am so sorry, I hope it all comes up trumps for you darl thinking of you and sending you some massive hugs. Sending you lots of sticky vibes darl with all my power for this little bub to stick. Hang in there darl.
Minnie i'm so very sorry :hug:
So sorry :hug:
Oh no minnie! I was so hoping you had at last got your dream pg! I hope it's one of those early pg things where things are still a bit hard to predict but can still turn out ok. WIshing for good news for you. I'm sorry x
WBM: good news on the fluid being just the weather. Glad you still have the birthing options you would like. And hope you are enjoying your little rib tickler! I find the kicking and wriggling under the ribs makes me squirm!
EmilyJames: Congrats on your BFP! I certainly felt very nervous before every ultrasound this time and can only imagine what you are going through. My OB (who has his own machine) was kind enough to let me come in as often as i wanted until i felt more confident. Would you be able to see your Dr more frequently for reassurance (as WBM also suggested?)
Cheshire: clever Bambi, in position already! Hope she stays there!
Alish: enjoy your work send off tomorrow night! Yay! And IKWYM about fluid: I don't have that issue this time but i had little 'tyres' of fluid round my ankles in late pg with DD. Not very attractive but my ankles came back not long after I had DD!
Oh... gotta go, DD is awake.. BBL i hope
Oh MM - I feel awful for you, what is the plan from here? I hope and pray that there are still sticky vibes around your little person and send you all the love and :hug: in the world.
PM - I'm not feeling completely full of baby yet (like I'm sure you are), so the kicking doesn't bother me yet - give me another 10 weeks and I'm sure I'll be like "oh stop it already"
Had a good night's sleep and looking forward to a good day today.
MM I am so sorry you have to go through this again :( please know we are here to love and support you xxxx.
Today is my angel's EDD and I feel... Nothing. Maybe it's cause I'm sick and exhausted, but when I have made an effort to think about it, all the sadness I had expected to rise up from the depths isn't there. So now I feel guilty that I don't feel anything... IYKWIM?
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Phee - I hope this makes you feel better. As you know, our angels have the same EDD. I had forgotten until you posted. So obviously there hasn't been an overwhelming sadness here either. I don't know why - it still comes sometimes, but I guess it's not attached to a specific date (I had the same the year after my Dad died, the date didn't seem to be particularly poignant).
Now that I remember it (or have been reminded), I think I will still go shopping this afternoon and buy baby a guardian angel, as the angel who made way for this life will always be looking over her. Sending you a big hug Phee :hug: your angel and your Buggle are lucky to have a Mummy who loves them!
Hi girls- some of you know me, well after a lot of effort I finally got my :bfp: a few days ago and I am on cloud nine!!
Looking forward to catching up with old and new friends, I have decided that this pregnancy is going to make it so only thinking positive thoughts here, even though Dh and my mum are more guarded, which is natural.
Scan in 3 weeks, to see a HB, then discharged from IVF clinic!
best wishes to everyone, saffy xx
First of all - Saffy - congratulations again!!!! I am so very pleased to see you here. I have been following your journey for quite a while now, so this BFP feels very personal. I have decided also that this time your bub is going to make it :-)
Minniemouse - if you are still reading: I am so sad to read about your scan. I want to say that a heartbeat at this rate this early is normal, and everything still may be ok, but I do not want to just say things to make you feel better. We both know it may be ok, but it may not be also. I understand how after all you have been through you need a break from all babt stuff. Take care of yourself, but I will still hope that you will come back in a week or two with good news.
pheebe - you feel nothing because you are already pregnant with the next. After my first m/c I cried first daily, then weekly until I got pregnant again. And then ****! the sadness disappeared. Part of it is the happy pregnancy hormones. Another part, for me at least, is that after m/c I felt like I will never have a baby, and I felt very empty inside. Whent I got pregnant, at least this part of sadness went away. I still think about my lost baby, but not quite with the same despair.
AFM - had my 20-week ultrasound and it did not go that well. Looks like my little girl has something called multicystic dyspalstic kidney. In normal English it means she only has one functioning kidney. Next scan in 4 weeks, but at this point they just want to make sure the other kidney stays healthy because if not, well, I do not even want to think about "if not".
Hi everyone sorry that i have not been around internet has been down will catch up later
Luna i'm sorry to hear that, FX everything goes well with your next scan.
Welcome Saffy wishing you a H&H 9 months :D
Luna - I am very sorry to hear your news. Chances are though that bub's other kidney is fine and you will deal with whatever help baby needs after she is born.
MM - I don't think you should give up just yet. Your HCG is still rising and bub didn't measure that far behind. I am praying for good news for you.
Saffy - So pleased to see you on this board where you belong.
MM~ with this pregnancy my HCG went up just like that so please dont give up hun. I am praying for you that we hear good news.
Luna~ I am so sorry that you did not get great news at your scan. But like India's mum said there is a good chance that the other kidney will be fine and she will be fine. I knew of someone who had a baby with the same problem and the ped told her that she needed to watch the dr and when the she got older she would not be able to drink.
Saffy~ please stay postive i know its easyer said then done.
AFM~ i have my big scan on the 20th dont know if i am going to find out the sex of this one. I don't care as long as the baby is healthy.
Saffy: Superexcited to see you in this thread! Congratulations! Stickiest of sticky vibes to you!
Luna: sorry your little girl is having some health issues. I hope you get good news at your next scan.
Minnie: thinking of you. Hope you get some good news soon.
Stoked: not sure if you are still checking in but i'm keeping an eye out for your BA.
AFM: baby is very squashed now i think: s/he kicks and stretches and my whole tummy moves. Lots of hiccups too. All a bit uncomfortable but very cute! I'm on countdown now: One more day on blood thinner injections and meds then i stop. And one more week until induction! Eeeeeeep! Getting nervous!
PM- Woohoo, only a week left :D so excited for you!!
Stoked- We are all hanging out for your BA lol
Angelfish- I'm sure you'll be happy whether you find out the sex or not as long as you get to see a nice healthy bub on the screen :)
Luna- Sorry to hear about the scan. Thinking positively for you both that the other kidney does just fine. May not help the stress much but my Uncle was born with only one good kidney and it hasn't affected his life much if at all :)
Saffy and EJ- Woohoo congratulations :D sending all my sticky vibes to you and everyone else in here since I don't need them anymore (would rather this bub out lol)
Phebee and WBM- :hug: I'm sure your lil angels are looking over these new bubs since they couldn't stay themselves.
India's Mum, Cheshire, Alish and anyone else I have missed- How are you all going?
AFM- In my shower bath on my fit ball trying to encourage bub out lol. Officially in early labour after being monitored earlier but doesn't mean too much to me since DS was such a long early labour. Just makes me even more eager to get him or her out... After s/he decided to get out of the posterior position that my lil one wriggled into while hooked up to the ctg monotor lol. Either want to go on the 7th or the 13th so hurry up baby :p
Luna - my uncle too only has one kidney and it hasn't stopped him doing anything, :crossfingers: that the other kidney remains healthy.
PM - so exciting! Only a week to go :) looking out for your BA
Damp - even more exciting to be in early labour :) I hope things go really well for you in the next day or so :D Glad bubs is out of the posterior position!
Saffy - welcome! How wonderful for you to get your BFP - good luck for your upcoming scan, may you see a lovely strong heartbeat!
angel - good luck for your upcoming scan, whether you find out or not, hope all is good in there :)
Cheshire, India's Mum - how are you going? In the boring stage of pg like me, nothing to report? Hope so, a boring pregnancy's a good pregnancy!
I'm nearly through a busy weekend, Mary Kay party friday night, hairdresser and my brother's 30th yesterday, and I have a baby shower today :) must get around to piping the chocolate tarts and cleaning the house a bit (DH's family are coming around while I'm out)
Oops, sorry, I really need to check my spelling, just a lil had on my phone. Meant to say after s/he decides* to get out of the posterior position lol. So not having another posterior birth, already been killing my back and DS's labour was soooo long and difficult because of it.
If this bub is anything like big bro, it could take more than a few days of early labour before active labour starts lol.
WBM- I think the 'boring' stage is awesome. Everyone has calmed down and you get to spend time with your belly and all its wriggliness lol.
Yays on the baby shower, I'm tempting fate and having mine Sunday the 14th... If I make it lol
hey everyone...
just popping into say hello and i miss u all and thinking of everyone....wish i was pregnant again so i could come in here lol lol...
ariana is going well....she is tiny compared to dd..she sleeps pretty good and is feeding better
dads had a bad turn for the worst and has another tumor and is in hospital....so its not looking great....luckily i have my beautiful dd by my side to keep me going.....
cant wait to hear some birth stories