thread: Pregnancy after miscarriage or loss ~ October 2010

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    selkirk, ny
    372

    MsKara~ i have talked to him about it. But he is just that way. I just dont know i know this might sound selfish but this is suppost to be one of the happiest times of my life he has made it so sadding for me.Congrats on 17weeks!
    Good luck KellBell with your scan

  2. #2

    Apr 2009
    central coast
    2,298

    Angelfish-you need to tell him you might have done this before but i havnt and the least you can do is pretend to be excited.
    My DH has a daughter to his ex but with work ect and being younger he just wasnt real involved in any of it but this time around he hasnt missed a thing and is so excited he always rubs my belly ect so tell your man you need him to do this for you.
    This is my 5th baby and i have been just as excited with all of them (except for my worries about the SLO) but i just cant get enough of being pregnant i looooooooooooove it i hope he gets on board for you soon.

  3. #3
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Feb 2010
    Gold Coast
    2,117

    Ferrals - FX for the all clear, it's sounding good so far!

    Kmm - Glad you're feeling better. Or queasier... lol. I hope you get the extra scans, too.

    MsKara - It was freezing in Melbourne! It's so nice to be back on the GC and in the sunshine. Hooray for the first flutters!! That's so cute that you had a cry, and even cuter that DH had to ask if it was gas, lol. I hope you start getting some major kicks soon.

    Kellie - GOOD LUCK!!!! The 12wk scan is such a milestone, and so beautiful to see bubby kicking around in there. I hope it goes well for you

    Angelfish - Awww hun, it's so hard when your partner isn't as excited as you are. I've been there with my previous pg. It was a very lonely time indeed. I hope he comes around as your belly grows, and if not........ most men switch gears once they lay eyes on their beautiful baby. I hope we can offer enough support to even things out a bit and help you not feel so alone.

    AFM - It's so good to be home. Our little dog was super excited to see us when we walked in last night, and has been extra cuddly too. I nearly had a cry about it, lol. Now i can start getting excited about your 20week(ish) scan on Friday. Eeeeeeep!!

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jan 2010
    Melbourne
    275

    angelfish I'm with ferrals. I think you need to make it clear that "been there done that" doesn't cut it.

    kellbell FX all is going well for you So excited for you to see the little one!

    I just had another OBs appt and it did not go as I thought it would. I was only going in to get a referral to have my thyroid re-tested, but instead found out my blood pressure is too high again and I have to go back on meds. I now have to have weekly GP visits to monitor my BP until I go back again in 3 weeks. I'm so worried about this and I'm really upset right now. Bleh... what can you do I guess.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    selkirk, ny
    372

    MsKara~ i am so sorry to hear about your BP .

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    BRISBANE
    996

    Thanks girls for your support bubs was beautiful and measured perfect was very active and most importantly we got really low risks for down syndrome now i feel excited like its really sinking in that another baby is coming very in love with our little munckin

    Sorry about your BP MsKara im back on BP meds too

    Wow ForShelby 19 weeks already thats amazing! your half way already Congrats!

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Apr 2010
    Tropical Far North Qld
    731

    Yay kell!!!!!!!!! So happy for u!!!!!